If you want to choose the pleasure of growth, prepare yourself for some pain.
IRVIN D. YALOMMany people are in despair because their dreams didn’t come true, and they despair even more that they did not make them come true.
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Specialness as a primary mode of death transcendence takes a number of other maladaptive forms.
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I thought a lot about how someone very old is the last living individual to have known some person or cluster of people.
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If people in their 20s had more death awareness, would that in fact temper their ambition or drive?
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I think we ripple on into others, just like a stone puts its ripples into a brook. That, for me, too, is a source of comfort. It kind of, in a sense, negates the sense of total oblivion.
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Death loses its terror if one dies when one has consummated one’s life!
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The creative members of an orthodoxy, any orthodoxy, ultimately outgrow their disciplines.
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Life is a spark between two identical voids, the darkness before birth and the one after death.
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Perhaps the single most important therapeutic credo that I have is that the unexamined life is not worth living.
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One comprehends oneself in order not to be preoccupied with oneself.
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Psychotherapy is a cyclical process from isolation into relationship. It is cyclical because the patient, in terror of existential isolation, relates deeply and meaningfully to the therapist and then, strengthened by this encounter, is led back again to a confrontation with existential isolation.
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One doesn’t do existential therapy as a freestanding separate theory; rather it informs your approach to such issues as death, which many therapists tend to shy away from.
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Despite the staunchest, most venerable defenses, we can never completely subdue death anxiety: it is always there, lurking in some hidden ravine of the mind.
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Love is not just a passion spark between two people; there is infinite difference between falling in love and standing in love.
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Pandora’s box, but to re-enter life in a richer, more compassionate manner.
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Many people are in despair because their dreams didn’t come true, and they despair even more that they did not make them come true.
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