If one is to learn to live with the dead, one must first learn to live with the living!
IRVIN D. YALOMI think we ripple on into others, just like a stone puts its ripples into a brook. That, for me, too, is a source of comfort. It kind of, in a sense, negates the sense of total oblivion.
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Though the physicality of death destroys us, the idea of death may save us.
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I must stop him from being one of those who call themselves good because they have no claws.
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As we reach the crest of life and look at the path before us, we apprehend that the path no longer ascends but slopes downward toward decline and diminishment. From that point on, concerns about death are never far from mind.
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Just as you were about to step on it, I asked you “Do you want to cross the footbridge to me?” – Immediately you did not want to anymore; and when I asked you again you remained silent.
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There are borderlines and there are borderlines. Labels do violence to people. You can’t treat the label; you have to treat the person behind the label. (17)
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The act of revealing oneself fully to another and still being accepted may be the major vehicle of therapeutic help.
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The more unlived your life, the greater your death anxiety.
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Mature love is loving, not being loved.
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Despair is the price one pays for self-awareness. Look deeply into life, and you’ll always find despair.
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Death loses its terror if one dies when one has consummated one’s life!
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Only free man are genuinely useful to one another and can form true friendships. And it’s absolutely permissible, by the highest right of Nature, for everyone to employ clear reason to determine how to live in a way that will allow him to flourish.
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Life is a miserable thing. I have decided to spend my life thinking about it.
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Life as a therapist is a life of service in which we daily transcend our personal wishes and turn our gaze toward the needs and growth of the other.
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If I’m among men who don’t agree at all with my nature, I will hardly be able to accommodate myself to them without greatly changing myself.
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I don’t let any personal views about religion cause me to want to take away something that’s offering the patient comfort.
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