If we climb high enough, we will reach a height from which tragedy ceases to look tragic.
IRVIN D. YALOMWe project ourselves into the future through our children; we grow rich, famous, ever larger; we develop compulsive protective rituals; or we embrace an impregnable belief in an ultimate rescuer.
More Irvin D. Yalom Quotes
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If one is to learn to live with the dead, one must first learn to live with the living!
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As we reach the crest of life and look at the path before us, we apprehend that the path no longer ascends but slopes downward toward decline and diminishment. From that point on, concerns about death are never far from mind.
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The death anxiety of many people is fueled … by disappointment at never having fulfilled their potential.
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The path to decision may be hard because it leads into the territory of both finiteness and groundlessness—domains soaked in anxiety.
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In a study we did of bereavement, we found that rather impressive numbers of widows and widowers had not simply gone back to their pre-loss functioning, but grown.
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Live your life to the fullest; and then, and only then, die. Don’t leave any unlived life behind.
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Never take away anything if you have nothing better to offer
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I never want to take away something when I don’t have anything better to offer him in a way.
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There are borderlines and there are borderlines. Labels do violence to people. You can’t treat the label; you have to treat the person behind the label. (17)
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The creative members of an orthodoxy, any orthodoxy, ultimately outgrow their disciplines.
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The more you fail to experience your life fully, the more you will fear death.
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None of my patients are really troubled by the idea that some part of what they say might be in a book in the future.
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If you want to choose the pleasure of growth, prepare yourself for some pain.
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When we have forgotten ourselves and become absorbed in someone (or something) outside ourselves
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If I had to pick out a therapist in a movie that I’d like to go see as a personal therapist, it would be Robin Williams in Goodwill Hunting.
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