The creative members of an orthodoxy, any orthodoxy, ultimately outgrow their disciplines.
IRVIN D. YALOMWe project ourselves into the future through our children; we grow rich, famous, ever larger; we develop compulsive protective rituals; or we embrace an impregnable belief in an ultimate rescuer.
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A curious thought experiment. . . Nietzsche’s message to us was to live life in such a way that we would be willing to repeat the same life eternally
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I dream of a love that is more than two people craving to possess one another.
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Death cures psychoneurosis. In a sense all these neurotic concerns–fear of rejection, interpersonal concerns–seem to melt away, and people get another perspective on their lives. The important things are really important, and the trivia of life is trivialized.
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One comprehends oneself in order not to be preoccupied with oneself.
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Only the wounded healer can truly heal. (97)
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There is some evidence, for example, that those who enter the death-related professions (soldiers, doctors, priests, and morticians) may in part be motivated by a need to obtain control over death anxiety.
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When people don’t have any curiosity about themselves, that is always a bad sign.
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To the extent that one is responsible for one’s life, one is alone.
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There was a time in our lives when we were so close that nothing seemed to obstruct our friendship and brotherhood, and only a small footbridge separated us.
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Live your life to the fullest; and then, and only then, die. Don’t leave any unlived life behind.
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None of my patients are really troubled by the idea that some part of what they say might be in a book in the future.
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One reason patients are reluctant to work in a therapy group is they fear that things will go too far, that the powerful therapist or the collective group might coerce them to lose control–to say or think or feel things that will be catastrophic.
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If one is to love oneself one must behave in ways that one can admire.
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I must stop him from being one of those who call themselves good because they have no claws.
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The more unlived your life, the greater your death anxiety.
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