Some have expressed the very opposite feeling–the fear that they would not be interesting enough to write about.
IRVIN D. YALOMSelf-awareness is a supreme gift, a treasure as precious as life.
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To care of another individual means to know and to experience the other as fully as possible.
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In a study we did of bereavement, we found that rather impressive numbers of widows and widowers had not simply gone back to their pre-loss functioning, but grown.
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This is what makes us human. But it comes with a costly price: the wound of mortality. Our existence is forever shadowed by the knowledge that we will grow, blossom, and, inevitably, diminish and die.
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None of my patients are really troubled by the idea that some part of what they say might be in a book in the future.
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Despite the staunchest, most venerable defenses, we can never completely subdue death anxiety: it is always there, lurking in some hidden ravine of the mind.
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When people don’t have any curiosity about themselves, that is always a bad sign.
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A focus on this deep dissatisfaction is often the starting point in overcoming death anxiety.
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Look out the other’s window. Try to see the world as your patient sees it.
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Death cures psychoneurosis. In a sense all these neurotic concerns–fear of rejection, interpersonal concerns–seem to melt away, and people get another perspective on their lives. The important things are really important, and the trivia of life is trivialized.
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Death, however, does itch. It itches all the time. It is always with us, scratching at some inner door.
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Despair is the price one pays for self-awareness. Look deeply into life, and you’ll always find despair.
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I think we ripple on into others, just like a stone puts its ripples into a brook. That, for me, too, is a source of comfort. It kind of, in a sense, negates the sense of total oblivion.
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…the more unlived your life, the greater your death anxiety.
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Mature love is loving, not being loved.
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As we reach the crest of life and look at the path before us, we apprehend that the path no longer ascends but slopes downward toward decline and diminishment. From that point on, concerns about death are never far from mind.
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