If people in their 20s had more death awareness, would that in fact temper their ambition or drive?
IRVIN D. YALOMSelf-awareness is a supreme gift, a treasure as precious as life.
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Life is a miserable thing. I have decided to spend my life thinking about it.
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All these things I’ve written so much about. That’s why I’ve made such a practice really, over and over to hammer home the point of self-revelation and being more of yourself and showing yourself. Every book I write I want to get that in there.
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I feel strongly, because a man who will himself die one day in the not to distant future and, also, as a psychiatrist who spent decades dealing with death anxiety, that confronting death allows us, not to open some noisome.
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Specialness as a primary mode of death transcendence takes a number of other maladaptive forms.
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Your greatest instrument is you, yourself, and the work of self-understanding is endless. I’m still learning.
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Never take away anything if you have nothing better to offer
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It is wrong to bear children out of need, wrong to use a child to alleviate loneliness, wrong to provide purpose in life by reproducing another copy of oneself. It is wrong also to seek immortality by spewing one’s germ into the future as though sperm contains your consciousness!
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The pain is there; when you close one door on it, it knocks to come in somewhere else.
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I think we ripple on into others, just like a stone puts its ripples into a brook. That, for me, too, is a source of comfort. It kind of, in a sense, negates the sense of total oblivion.
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Indeed, the evidence supporting the efficacy of group therapy, and the prevailing sentiment of the mental health profession, are sufficiently strong that it would be difficult to defend the adequacy of the inpatient unit that attempted to operate without a small group program.
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One comprehends oneself in order not to be preoccupied with oneself.
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If one is to learn to live with the dead, one must first learn to live with the living!
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Were not teaching our students the importance of relationships with other people: how you work with them, what the relational pathology consists of, how you examine your own conscience, how you examine the inner world, how you examine your dreams.
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The death anxiety of many people is fueled … by disappointment at never having fulfilled their potential.
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It’s not easy to live every moment wholly aware of death. It’s like trying to stare the sun in the face: you can stand only so much of it. Because we cannot live frozen in fear, we generate methods to soften death’s terror.
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