I think we ripple on into others, just like a stone puts its ripples into a brook. That, for me, too, is a source of comfort. It kind of, in a sense, negates the sense of total oblivion.
IRVIN D. YALOMSelf-awareness is a supreme gift, a treasure as precious as life.
More Irvin D. Yalom Quotes
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Look out the other’s window. Try to see the world as your patient sees it.
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Death, however, does itch. It itches all the time. It is always with us, scratching at some inner door.
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Only the wounded healer can truly heal. (97)
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Specialness as a primary mode of death transcendence takes a number of other maladaptive forms.
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When we have forgotten ourselves and become absorbed in someone (or something) outside ourselves
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When people don’t have any curiosity about themselves, that is always a bad sign.
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What? ‘Borderline patients play games’? That what you said? Ernest, you’ll never be a real therapist if you think like that. That’s exactly what I meant earlier when I talked about the dangers of diagnosis.
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This was due to a kind of increased existential awareness that resulted from this confrontation with the death of another. And I think it brought them in touch with their own death, so they began to experience a kind of preciousness to life that comes with an experience of its transiency.
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One comprehends oneself in order not to be preoccupied with oneself.
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As we reach the crest of life and look at the path before us, we apprehend that the path no longer ascends but slopes downward toward decline and diminishment. From that point on, concerns about death are never far from mind.
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Mature love is loving, not being loved.
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Hidden in disguise, leaking out in a variety of symptoms. It is the wellspring of many of our worries, stresses, and conflicts.
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Live your life to the fullest; and then, and only then, die. Don’t leave any unlived life behind.
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Indeed, the evidence supporting the efficacy of group therapy, and the prevailing sentiment of the mental health profession, are sufficiently strong that it would be difficult to defend the adequacy of the inpatient unit that attempted to operate without a small group program.
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I must stop him from being one of those who call themselves good because they have no claws.
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