Despite the staunchest, most venerable defenses, we can never completely subdue death anxiety: it is always there, lurking in some hidden ravine of the mind.
IRVIN D. YALOMIf one is to learn to live with the dead, one must first learn to live with the living!
More Irvin D. Yalom Quotes
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To the best of my knowledge, every acute inpatient ward offers some inpatient group therapy experience.
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I think my quarry is illusion. I war against magic. I believe that, though illusion often cheers and comforts, it ultimately and invariably weakens and constricts the spirit.
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When we have forgotten ourselves and become absorbed in someone (or something) outside ourselves
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A curious thought experiment. . . Nietzsche’s message to us was to live life in such a way that we would be willing to repeat the same life eternally
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Despair is the price one pays for self-awareness. Look deeply into life, and you’ll always find despair.
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Since then mountains and torrential rivers and whatever separates and alienates have been cast between us, and even if we wanted to get together, we couldn’t. But when you now think of that little footbridge, words fail you and you sob and marvel.
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… sooner or later she had to give up the hope for a better past.
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Life as a therapist is a life of service in which we daily transcend our personal wishes and turn our gaze toward the needs and growth of the other.
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Some have expressed the very opposite feeling–the fear that they would not be interesting enough to write about.
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Specialness as a primary mode of death transcendence takes a number of other maladaptive forms.
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Look out the other’s window. Try to see the world as your patient sees it.
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Pandora’s box, but to re-enter life in a richer, more compassionate manner.
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Rather, love is a way of being, a “giving to,” not a ‘falling for”; a mode of relating at large, not an act limited to a single person.
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Some day soon, perhaps in forty years, there will be no one alive who has ever known me. That’s when I will be truly dead – when I exist in no one’s memory.
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A free man who lives among the ignorant strives as far as he can to avoid their favors. A free man acts honestly, not deceptively.
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