I dream of a love that is more than two people craving to possess one another.
IRVIN D. YALOMIf one is to learn to live with the dead, one must first learn to live with the living!
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If one is to learn to live with the dead, one must first learn to live with the living!
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Life as a therapist is a life of service in which we daily transcend our personal wishes and turn our gaze toward the needs and growth of the other.
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If one is to love oneself one must behave in ways that one can admire.
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Look out the other’s window. Try to see the world as your patient sees it.
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Marriage and its entourage of possession and jealousy enslave the spirit.
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A curious thought experiment. . . Nietzsche’s message to us was to live life in such a way that we would be willing to repeat the same life eternally
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If people in their 20s had more death awareness, would that in fact temper their ambition or drive?
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Despite the staunchest, most venerable defenses, we can never completely subdue death anxiety: it is always there, lurking in some hidden ravine of the mind.
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The more you fail to experience your life fully, the more you will fear death.
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This was due to a kind of increased existential awareness that resulted from this confrontation with the death of another. And I think it brought them in touch with their own death, so they began to experience a kind of preciousness to life that comes with an experience of its transiency.
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To the extent that one is responsible for one’s life, one is alone.
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One doesn’t do existential therapy as a freestanding separate theory; rather it informs your approach to such issues as death, which many therapists tend to shy away from.
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Rather, love is a way of being, a “giving to,” not a ‘falling for”; a mode of relating at large, not an act limited to a single person.
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The therapist can make the group feel safer by allowing each patient to set his or her limits and by emphasizing the patient’s control over every interaction.
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Life is a miserable thing. I have decided to spend my life thinking about it.
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