It’s not easy to live every moment wholly aware of death. It’s like trying to stare the sun in the face: you can stand only so much of it. Because we cannot live frozen in fear, we generate methods to soften death’s terror.
IRVIN D. YALOMAs we reach the crest of life and look at the path before us, we apprehend that the path no longer ascends but slopes downward toward decline and diminishment. From that point on, concerns about death are never far from mind.
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Live your life to the fullest; and then, and only then, die. Don’t leave any unlived life behind.
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There was a time in our lives when we were so close that nothing seemed to obstruct our friendship and brotherhood, and only a small footbridge separated us.
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I feel strongly, because a man who will himself die one day in the not to distant future and, also, as a psychiatrist who spent decades dealing with death anxiety, that confronting death allows us, not to open some noisome.
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To the best of my knowledge, every acute inpatient ward offers some inpatient group therapy experience.
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I think my quarry is illusion. I war against magic. I believe that, though illusion often cheers and comforts, it ultimately and invariably weakens and constricts the spirit.
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If I’m among men who don’t agree at all with my nature, I will hardly be able to accommodate myself to them without greatly changing myself.
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When we have forgotten ourselves and become absorbed in someone (or something) outside ourselves
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I must stop him from being one of those who call themselves good because they have no claws.
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Mature love is loving, not being loved.
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The creative members of an orthodoxy, any orthodoxy, ultimately outgrow their disciplines.
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Death, however, does itch. It itches all the time. It is always with us, scratching at some inner door.
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Since then mountains and torrential rivers and whatever separates and alienates have been cast between us, and even if we wanted to get together, we couldn’t. But when you now think of that little footbridge, words fail you and you sob and marvel.
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To love means to be actively concerned for the life and the growth of another.
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Psychiatry is a strange field because, unlike any other field of medicine, you never really finish.
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Your greatest instrument is you, yourself, and the work of self-understanding is endless. I’m still learning.
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