Pandora’s box, but to re-enter life in a richer, more compassionate manner.
IRVIN D. YALOMAll these things I’ve written so much about. That’s why I’ve made such a practice really, over and over to hammer home the point of self-revelation and being more of yourself and showing yourself. Every book I write I want to get that in there.
More Irvin D. Yalom Quotes
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Religion has everything on its side: revelation, prophecies, government protection, the highest dignity and eminence. . . and more than this, the invaluable prerogative of being allowed to imprint its doctrines on the mind at a tender age of childhood, whereby they become almost innate ideas.
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To love means to be actively concerned for the life and the growth of another.
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Despair is the price one pays for self-awareness. Look deeply into life, and you’ll always find despair.
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Death cures psychoneurosis. In a sense all these neurotic concerns–fear of rejection, interpersonal concerns–seem to melt away, and people get another perspective on their lives. The important things are really important, and the trivia of life is trivialized.
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Every person must choose how much truth he can stand.
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Never take away anything if you have nothing better to offer
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Live right, he reminded himself, and have faith that good things will flow from you even if you never learn of them.
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One comprehends oneself in order not to be preoccupied with oneself.
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I never want to take away something when I don’t have anything better to offer him in a way.
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The path to decision may be hard because it leads into the territory of both finiteness and groundlessness—domains soaked in anxiety.
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None of my patients are really troubled by the idea that some part of what they say might be in a book in the future.
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What? ‘Borderline patients play games’? That what you said? Ernest, you’ll never be a real therapist if you think like that. That’s exactly what I meant earlier when I talked about the dangers of diagnosis.
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The drive for power is not uncommonly motivated by this dynamic. One’s own fear and sense of limitation is avoided by enlarging oneself and one’s sphere of control.
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I thought a lot about how someone very old is the last living individual to have known some person or cluster of people.
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I think we ripple on into others, just like a stone puts its ripples into a brook. That, for me, too, is a source of comfort. It kind of, in a sense, negates the sense of total oblivion.
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