A curious thought experiment. . . Nietzsche’s message to us was to live life in such a way that we would be willing to repeat the same life eternally
IRVIN D. YALOMLife is a spark between two identical voids, the darkness before birth and the one after death.
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Were not teaching our students the importance of relationships with other people: how you work with them, what the relational pathology consists of, how you examine your own conscience, how you examine the inner world, how you examine your dreams.
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Your greatest instrument is you, yourself, and the work of self-understanding is endless. I’m still learning.
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If I’m among men who don’t agree at all with my nature, I will hardly be able to accommodate myself to them without greatly changing myself.
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Never take away anything if you have nothing better to offer
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None of my patients are really troubled by the idea that some part of what they say might be in a book in the future.
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Living safely is dangerous.
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There are borderlines and there are borderlines. Labels do violence to people. You can’t treat the label; you have to treat the person behind the label. (17)
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The spirit of a man is constructed out of his choices.
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The death anxiety of many people is fueled … by disappointment at never having fulfilled their potential.
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Marriage and its entourage of possession and jealousy enslave the spirit.
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Some day soon, perhaps in forty years, there will be no one alive who has ever known me. That’s when I will be truly dead – when I exist in no one’s memory.
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And if you do the latter, you’re not so worried about the everyday trivialities of life, for example, petty concerns about secrecy or privacy.
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There was a time in our lives when we were so close that nothing seemed to obstruct our friendship and brotherhood, and only a small footbridge separated us.
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…the more unlived your life, the greater your death anxiety.
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Religion has everything on its side: revelation, prophecies, government protection, the highest dignity and eminence. . . and more than this, the invaluable prerogative of being allowed to imprint its doctrines on the mind at a tender age of childhood, whereby they become almost innate ideas.
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