To one’s enemies: “I hate myself more than you ever could.
ALAIN DE BOTTONIn their different ways, art and philosophy help us, in Schopenhauer’s words, to turn pain into knowledge.
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Arguments are like eels: however logical, they may slip from the minds weak grasp unless fixed there by imagery and style.
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My writing always came out of a very personal place, out of an attempt to stay sane.
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Our homes do not have to offer us permanent occupancy or store our clothes to merit the name. To speak of home in relation to a building is simply to recognise its harmony with our own prized internal song. Home can be an airport or a library, a garden or a motorway diner.
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Taking photographs can assuage the itch for possession sparked by the beauty of a place; our anxiety over losing a precious scene can decline with every click of the shutter.
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We are presented with an unpleasant choice between either committing to peculiar concepts about immaterial deities or letting go entirely of a host of consoling, subtle or just charming rituals for which we struggle to find equivalents in secular society.
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The challenge for a human now is to be more interesting to another than his or her smartphone.
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The company of certain people may excite our generosity and sensitivity, while that of others awakens our competitiveness and envy.
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It’s hard loving those who don’t much like themselves: “If you’re so great, why would you think I’m so great.
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The most attractive are not those who allow us to kiss them at once [we soon feel ungrateful] or those who never allow us to kiss them [we soon forget them], but those who coyly lead us between the two extremes.
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Every time we feel satisfied with what we have, we can be counted as rich, however little we may actually possess.
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The mind does most of its best thinking when we aren’t there. The answers are there in the morning.
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It is striking how much more seriously we are likely to be taken after we have been dead a few centuries.
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A good half of the art of living is resilience.
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What should worry us is not the number of people that oppose us, but how good their reasons are for doing so.
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As we write, so we build: to keep a record of what matters to us.
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