Literature deserves its prestige for one reason above all others – because it’s a tool to help us live and die with a little bit more wisdom, goodness, and sanity.
ALAIN DE BOTTONAs an atheist, I think there are lots of things religions get up to which are of value to non-believers – and one of those things is trying to be a bit better than we normally manage to be.
More Alain de Botton Quotes
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Writing isn’t a career choice. It’s self-medication that over time precipitates the madness it was meant to ward off.
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You normally have to be bashed about a bit by life to see the point of daffodils, sunsets and uneventful nice days.
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Don’t despair: despair suggests you are in total control and know what is coming. You don’t – surrender to events with hope.
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Envy: a confused, tangled guide to one’s own ambitions.
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Our capacity to draw happiness from aesthetic objects or material goods in fact seems critically dependent on our first satisfying a more important range of emotional or psychological needs, among them the need for understanding, for love, expression and respect.
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It is perhaps sad books that best console us when we are sad.
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How generous was it to offer gifts to people one knew would never accept them?
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Unhappiness can stem from having only one perspective to play with.
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Forgiveness requires a sense that bad behaviour is a sign of suffering rather than malice.
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Although I don’t believe in God, Bach’s music shows me what a love of God must feel like.
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Maturity: the confidence to have no opinions on many things.
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Endeavoring to purchase something we think beautiful may in fact be the most unimaginative way of dealing with the longing it excites in us, just as trying to sleep with someone may be the bluntest response to a feeling of love.
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Work is most fulfilling when you’re at the comfortable, exciting edge of not quite knowing what you are doing.
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The good parent: someone who doesn’t mind, for a time, being hated by their children.
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We keep a special place in our hearts for people who refuse to be impressed by us.
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