The inability to live in the present lies in the fear of leaving the sheltered position of anticipation or memory, and so of admitting that this is the only life that one is ever likely (heavenly intervention aside) to live.
ALAIN DE BOTTONA good half of the art of living is resilience.
More Alain de Botton Quotes
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The best cure for one’s bad tendencies is to see them in action in another person.
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We are all more intelligent than we are capable, and awareness of the insanity of love has never saved anyone from the disease.
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Bitterness: anger that forgot where it came from.
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What am I supposed to do here? What am I supposed to think?
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Though it may feel otherwise, enjoying life is no more dangerous than apprehending it with continuous anxiety and gloom.
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Art holds out the promise of inner wholeness.
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An argument in a couple: 2 people attempting to introduce each other to important truths – by panicked shouting.
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One of the unexpectedly important things that art can do for us is to teach us how to suffer more successfully.
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The pleasure we derive from journeys is perhaps dependent more on the mindset with which we travel than on the destination we travel to.
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Socrates, on being insulted in the marketplace, asked by a passerby, “Don’t you worry about being called names?” retorted, “Why? Do you think I should resent it if an ass had kicked me?
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Arguments are like eels: however logical, they may slip from the minds weak grasp unless fixed there by imagery and style.
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What we seek, at the deepest level, is inwardly to resemble, rather than physically to possess, the objects and places that touch us through their beauty.
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Most of what makes a book ‘good’ is that we are reading it at the right moment for us.
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What is fascinating about marriage is why anyone wants to get married.
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The largest part of what we call ‘personality’ is determined by how we’ve opted to defend ourselves against anxiety and sadness”.
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