What should worry us is not the number of people that oppose us, but how good their reasons are for doing so.
ALAIN DE BOTTONA good half of the art of living is resilience.
More Alain de Botton Quotes
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Serious journalists often imagine society is adrift because people don’t know certain things.
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It is not just nature that defies us. Human life is as overwhelming… If we spend time in it [the vast spaces of nature], they may help us to accept more graciously the great, unfathomable events that molest our lives and will inevitably return us to dust.
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Reputation matters so much only because people so seldom think for themselves.
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The mind may be reluctant to think properly when thinking is all it is supposed to do; the task can be as paralysing as having to tell a joke or mimic an accent on demand.
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Must being in love always mean being in pain?
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Every time we feel satisfied with what we have, we can be counted as rich, however little we may actually possess.
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We often lose our tempers not with those who are actually to blame; just with those who love us enough to forgive us our foul moods.
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Forgiveness requires a sense that bad behaviour is a sign of suffering rather than malice.
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Literature is the greatest reality simulator – a machine that puts you through infinitely more situations than you can ever directly witness.
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Socrates, on being insulted in the marketplace, asked by a passerby, “Don’t you worry about being called names?” retorted, “Why? Do you think I should resent it if an ass had kicked me?
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Curiosity takes ignorance seriously – and is confident enough to admit when it’s in the dark. It is aware of not knowing. And then it sets out to do something about it.
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The largest part of what we call ‘personality’ is determined by how we’ve opted to defend ourselves against anxiety and sadness”.
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Sweetness is the opposite of machismo, which is everywhere-and I really don’t get on with machismo. I’m interested in sensitivity, and weakness, and fear, and anxiety, because I think that, at the end of the day, behind our masks, that’s what we are.
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The moment we cry in a film is not when things are sad but when they turn out to be more beautiful than we expected them to be.
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A successful work will draw out the features capable of exciting a sense of beauty and interest in the spectator.
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