Although I don’t believe in God, Bach’s music shows me what a love of God must feel like.
ALAIN DE BOTTONA good half of the art of living is resilience.
More Alain de Botton Quotes
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There is a longing for a return to a time without the need for choices, free of the regret at the inevitable loss that all choice (however wonderful) has entailed.
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One’s doing well if age improves even slightly one’s capacity to hold on to that vital truism: “This too shall pass.
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We need a home in the psychological sense as much as we need one in the physical: to compensate for a vulnerability.
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The largest part of what we call ‘personality’ is determined by how we’ve opted to defend ourselves against anxiety and sadness”.
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The only way to be happy is to realise how much depends on how you look at things
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As we write, so we build: to keep a record of what matters to us.
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Maturity: knowing where you’re crazy, trying to warn others of the fact and striving to keep yourself under control.
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In their different ways, art and philosophy help us, in Schopenhauer’s words, to turn pain into knowledge.
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I think people want to get married to end their emotional uncertainty. In a way, they want to end powerful feelings, or certainly the negative ones.
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A virtuous, ordinary life, striving for wisdom but never far from folly, is achievement enough.
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People only get really interesting when they start to rattle the bars of their cages.
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Our responses to the world are crucially moulded by the company we keep, for we temper our curiosity to fit in with the expectations of others.
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There is a devilishly direct relationship between the significance of an idea and how nervous we become at the prospect of having to think about it.
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Dreams reveal we never quite get ‘over’ anything: it’s all still in there somewhere.
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The need for love hallucinates a prince or princess. The oasis complex is never a complete delusion: the man in the desert does see something on the horizon. It is just that the palms have withered, the well is dry, and the place is infected with locusts.
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