What is fascinating about marriage is why anyone wants to get married.
ALAIN DE BOTTONBecause it’s bad enough not getting what you want, but it’s even worse to have an idea of what it is you want and find out at the end of the journey that it isn’t, in fact, what you wanted all along.
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A notorious inability to express emotions makes human beings the only animals capable of suicide.
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We are not always humiliated by failing; we are humiliated only if we first invest our pride and sense of worth in a given achievement and then do not reach it.
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Maturity: knowing where you’re crazy, trying to warn others of the fact and striving to keep yourself under control.
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What should worry us is not the number of people that oppose us, but how good their reasons are for doing so.
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Unhappiness can stem from having only one perspective to play with.
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The activities of drawing, eating and drinking, all involve assimilations by the self of desirable elements from the world, a transfer of goodness from without to within.
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The company of certain people may excite our generosity and sensitivity, while that of others awakens our competitiveness and envy.
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We are all more intelligent than we are capable, and awareness of the insanity of love has never saved anyone from the disease.
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One’s doing well if age improves even slightly one’s capacity to hold on to that vital truism: “This too shall pass.
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A danger of travel is that we see things at the wrong time, before we have had a chance to build up the necessary receptivity and when new information is therefore as useless and fugitive as necklace beads without a connecting chain.
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Writing isn’t a career choice. It’s self-medication that over time precipitates the madness it was meant to ward off.
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All tours are filled with humiliation. My publisher once hired a private jet to fly me to a venue where 1,000 people were waiting. It almost bankrupted him.
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It is in dialogue with pain that many beautiful things acquire their value. Acquaintance with grief turns out to be one of the more unusual prerequisites of architectural appreciation. We might, quite aside from all other requirements, need to be a little sad before buildings can properly touch us.
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Getting to the top has an unfortunate tendency to persuade people that the system is OK after all.
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Art holds out the promise of inner wholeness.
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