If we are inclined to forget how much there is in the world besides that which we anticipate, then works of art are perhaps a little to blame, for in them we find at work the same process of simplification or selection as in the imagination.
ALAIN DE BOTTONThe very act of drawing an object, however badly, swiftly takes the drawer from a woolly sense of what the object looks like to a precise awareness of its component parts and particularities.
More Alain de Botton Quotes
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There may be significant things to learn about people by looking at what annoys them most.
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The best cure for one’s bad tendencies is to see them in action in another person.
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People who readily accept the need for a gym will resist that their personalities might need some work too.
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Those who divorce aren’t necessarily the most unhappy, just those neatly able to believe their misery is caused by one other person.
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Journeys are the midwives of thought. Few places are more conducive to internal conversations than moving planes, ships or trains.
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How generous was it to offer gifts to people one knew would never accept them?
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Because the rhythm of conversation makes no allowance for dead periods, because the presence of others calls for continuous responses, we are left to regret the inanity of what we say, and the missed opportunity of what we do not.
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Although I don’t believe in God, Bach’s music shows me what a love of God must feel like.
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An argument in a couple: 2 people attempting to introduce each other to important truths – by panicked shouting.
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The blunt large questions become connected to smaller, apparently esoteric ones.
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Reputation matters so much only because people so seldom think for themselves.
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Yet often, they know but just don’t care. So the task of serious journalism isn’t just to lay out truths. It is to make vital truths compelling to a big audience.
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As an atheist, I think there are lots of things religions get up to which are of value to non-believers – and one of those things is trying to be a bit better than we normally manage to be.
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Forcing people to eat together is an effective way to promote tolerance.
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To one’s enemies: “I hate myself more than you ever could.
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