We are all more intelligent than we are capable, and awareness of the insanity of love has never saved anyone from the disease.
ALAIN DE BOTTONThe very act of drawing an object, however badly, swiftly takes the drawer from a woolly sense of what the object looks like to a precise awareness of its component parts and particularities.
More Alain de Botton Quotes
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The challenge of modern relationships: how to prove more interesting than the other’s smartphone.
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One of the better guarantors of ending up in a good relationship: an advanced capacity to be alone.
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In their different ways, art and philosophy help us, in Schopenhauer’s words, to turn pain into knowledge.
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It is perhaps when our lives are at their most problematic that we are likely to be most receptive to beautiful things.
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In the oasis complex, the thirsty man images he sees water, palm trees, and shade not because he has evidence for the belief, but because he has a need for it. Desperate needs bring about a hallucination of their solution: thirst hallucinates water.
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Out of the millions of people we live among, most of whom we habitually ignore and are ignored by in turn, there are always a few that hold hostage our capacity for happiness, whom we could recognize by their smell alone and whom we would rather die than be without.
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Our homes do not have to offer us permanent occupancy or store our clothes to merit the name. To speak of home in relation to a building is simply to recognise its harmony with our own prized internal song. Home can be an airport or a library, a garden or a motorway diner.
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What is fascinating about marriage is why anyone wants to get married.
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Being content is perhaps no less easy than playing the violin well: and requires no less practice.
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Differ though we might with Christianity’s view of what precisely our souls need, it is hard to discredit the provocative underlying thesis.
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You normally have to be bashed about a bit by life to see the point of daffodils, sunsets and uneventful nice days.
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Feeling lost, crazy and desperate belongs to a good life as much as optimism, certainty and reason.
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We keep a special place in our hearts for people who refuse to be impressed by us.
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The problem isn’t so much finding good ideas (there is no shortage) as embedding the ones we have into everyday practice.
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We are presented with an unpleasant choice between either committing to peculiar concepts about immaterial deities or letting go entirely of a host of consoling, subtle or just charming rituals for which we struggle to find equivalents in secular society.
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