One of the best protections against disappointment is to have a lot going on.
ALAIN DE BOTTONNewspapers are being read all around. The point is not, of course, to glean new information, but rather to coax the mind out of its sleep-induced introspective temper.
More Alain de Botton Quotes
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Every realistic picture represents a choice as to which features of reality should be given prominence; no painting ever captures the whole.
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The most attractive are not those who allow us to kiss them at once [we soon feel ungrateful] or those who never allow us to kiss them [we soon forget them], but those who coyly lead us between the two extremes.
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We are presented with an unpleasant choice between either committing to peculiar concepts about immaterial deities or letting go entirely of a host of consoling, subtle or just charming rituals for which we struggle to find equivalents in secular society.
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We should not feel embarrassed by our difficulties, only by our failure to grow anything beautiful from them.
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Arguments are like eels: however logical, they may slip from the minds weak grasp unless fixed there by imagery and style.
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People only get really interesting when they start to rattle the bars of their cages.
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Rather than employing it as a supplement to active, conscious seeing, they used the medium as a substitute, paying less attention to the world than they had done previously, taking it on faith that photography automatically assured them possession of it.
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The materialistic view of happiness of our age starkly revealed in our understanding of the word “luxury.
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We keep a special place in our hearts for people who refuse to be impressed by us.
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Out of the millions of people we live among, most of whom we habitually ignore and are ignored by in turn, there are always a few that hold hostage our capacity for happiness, whom we could recognize by their smell alone and whom we would rather die than be without.
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A ‘good job’ can be both practically attractive while still not good enough to devote your entire life to.
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Reputation matters so much only because people so seldom think for themselves.
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As victims of hurt, we frequently don’t bring up what ails us, because so many wounds look absurd in the light of day.
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Maturity: knowing where you’re crazy, trying to warn others of the fact and striving to keep yourself under control.
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We often lose our tempers not with those who are actually to blame; just with those who love us enough to forgive us our foul moods.
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