One of the better guarantors of ending up in a good relationship: an advanced capacity to be alone.
ALAIN DE BOTTONNewspapers are being read all around. The point is not, of course, to glean new information, but rather to coax the mind out of its sleep-induced introspective temper.
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Social media has lots of benefits, but compared to Christianity, it tends to group people by interests. Religion puts you with people who have nothing in common except that you’re human.
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Intimacy is the capacity to be rather weird with someone – and finding that that’s ok with them.
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to design means forcing ourselves to unlearn what we believe we already know, patiently to take apart the mechanisms behind our reflexes and to acknowledge the mystery and stupefying complexity of everyday gestures like switching off a light of turning on a tap
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Out of the millions of people we live among, most of whom we habitually ignore and are ignored by in turn, there are always a few that hold hostage our capacity for happiness, whom we could recognize by their smell alone and whom we would rather die than be without.
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It’s hard loving those who don’t much like themselves: “If you’re so great, why would you think I’m so great.
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What is fascinating about marriage is why anyone wants to get married.
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We are presented with an unpleasant choice between either committing to peculiar concepts about immaterial deities or letting go entirely of a host of consoling, subtle or just charming rituals for which we struggle to find equivalents in secular society.
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My writing always came out of a very personal place, out of an attempt to stay sane.
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A notorious inability to express emotions makes human beings the only animals capable of suicide.
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Newspapers are being read all around. The point is not, of course, to glean new information, but rather to coax the mind out of its sleep-induced introspective temper.
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It is perhaps sad books that best console us when we are sad.
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We keep a special place in our hearts for people who refuse to be impressed by us.
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It was no longer her absence that wounded me, but my growing indifference to it. Forgetting, however calming, was also a reminder of infidelity to what I had at one time held so dear.
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Most good thinking has its origin in fear.
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Every time we feel satisfied with what we have, we can be counted as rich, however little we may actually possess.
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