Cynics are – beneath it all – only idealists with awkwardly high standards.
ALAIN DE BOTTONNewspapers are being read all around. The point is not, of course, to glean new information, but rather to coax the mind out of its sleep-induced introspective temper.
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Must being in love always mean being in pain?
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I passionately believe that’s it’s not just what you say that counts, it’s also how you say it – that the success of your argument critically depends on your manner of presenting it.
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As adults, we try to develop the character traits that would have rescued our parents.
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My writing always came out of a very personal place, out of an attempt to stay sane.
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We envy only those whom we feel ourselves to be like; we envy only members of our reference group. There are few successes more unendurable than those of our close friends.
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The company of certain people may excite our generosity and sensitivity, while that of others awakens our competitiveness and envy.
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Although I don’t believe in God, Bach’s music shows me what a love of God must feel like.
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It’s perhaps easier now than ever before to make a good living; it’s perhaps harder than ever before to stay calm, to be free of career anxiety.
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It is not just nature that defies us. Human life is as overwhelming… If we spend time in it [the vast spaces of nature], they may help us to accept more graciously the great, unfathomable events that molest our lives and will inevitably return us to dust.
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Most good thinking has its origin in fear.
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One of the unexpectedly important things that art can do for us is to teach us how to suffer more successfully.
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He did not mean to depress us, rather to free us from expectations which inspire bitterness. It is consoling, when love has let us down, to hear that happiness was never part of the plan.
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People only get really interesting when they start to rattle the bars of their cages.
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Without sex, we would be dangerously invulnerable. We might believe we were not ridiculous. We wouldn’t know rejection and humiliation so intimately.
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True respectability stems not from the will of the majority but from proper reasoning.
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