A good half of the art of living is resilience.
ALAIN DE BOTTONIf one felt successful, there’d be so little incentive to be successful.
More Alain de Botton Quotes
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Our responses to the world are crucially moulded by the company we keep, for we temper our curiosity to fit in with the expectations of others.
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Kant and Hegel are interesting thinkers. But I am happy to insist that they are also terrible writers.
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We need a refuge to shore up our states of mind, because so much of the world is opposed to our allegiances. We need our rooms to align us to desirable versions of ourselves and to keep alive the important, evanescent sides of us.
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We often lose our tempers not with those who are actually to blame; just with those who love us enough to forgive us our foul moods.
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It is striking how much more seriously we are likely to be taken after we have been dead a few centuries.
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Travel agents would be wiser to ask us what we hope to change about our lives rather than simply where we wish to go.
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How generous was it to offer gifts to people one knew would never accept them?
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The flawless object throws into perspective the mediocrity that surrounds it. We are reminded of the way we would wish things always to be and of how incomplete our lives remain.
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The inability to live in the present lies in the fear of leaving the sheltered position of anticipation or memory, and so of admitting that this is the only life that one is ever likely (heavenly intervention aside) to live.
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One kind of good book should leave you asking: how did the author know that about me?
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Memory is… similar to anticipation: an instrument of simplification and selection.
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How do the stems connect to the roots?’ ‘Where is the mist coming from?’ ‘Why does one tree seem darker than another?’ These questions are implicitly asked and answered in the process of sketching.
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In a secularising world, art has replaced religion as a touchstone of our reverence and devotion.
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The blunt large questions become connected to smaller, apparently esoteric ones.
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Maturity: the confidence to have no opinions on many things.
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