Forgiveness requires a sense that bad behaviour is a sign of suffering rather than malice.
ALAIN DE BOTTONAfter 40 (old age for most of man’s history), one should strive to be more or less packed and ready to go were the end call to come.
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The longing for a destiny is no nowhere stronger than in our romantic life. All too often forced to share our bed with those who cannot fathom our soul, can we not be forgiven if we believe ourselves fated to stumble one day upon the man or woman of our dreams.
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Work is most fulfilling when you’re at the comfortable, exciting edge of not quite knowing what you are doing.
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Bitterness: anger that forgot where it came from.
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Most anger stems from feelings of weakness, sadness and fear: hard to remember when one is at the receiving end of its defiant roar.
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Reputation matters so much only because people so seldom think for themselves.
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Our homes do not have to offer us permanent occupancy or store our clothes to merit the name. To speak of home in relation to a building is simply to recognise its harmony with our own prized internal song. Home can be an airport or a library, a garden or a motorway diner.
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The only way to be happy is to realise how much depends on how you look at things
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Although I don’t believe in God, Bach’s music shows me what a love of God must feel like.
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It is striking how much more seriously we are likely to be taken after we have been dead a few centuries.
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An argument in a couple: 2 people attempting to introduce each other to important truths – by panicked shouting.
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If we are inclined to forget how much there is in the world besides that which we anticipate, then works of art are perhaps a little to blame, for in them we find at work the same process of simplification or selection as in the imagination.
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It’s as though either you accept [religious] doctrine and then you can have all the nice stuff, or you reject the doctrine and you’re living in some kind of spiritual wasteland under the guidance of CNN and Walmart.
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How generous was it to offer gifts to people one knew would never accept them?
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We each appear to hold within ourselves a range of divergent views as to our native qualities.. And amid such uncertainty, we typically turn to the wider world to settle the question of our significance.. we seem beholden to affections of others to endure ourselves.
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Kant and Hegel are interesting thinkers. But I am happy to insist that they are also terrible writers.
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