The pleasure we derive from journeys is perhaps dependent more on the mindset with which we travel than on the destination we travel to.
ALAIN DE BOTTONAfter 40 (old age for most of man’s history), one should strive to be more or less packed and ready to go were the end call to come.
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Without sex, we would be dangerously invulnerable. We might believe we were not ridiculous. We wouldn’t know rejection and humiliation so intimately.
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The media insists on taking what someone didn’t mean to say as being far closer to the truth than what they did.
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A danger of travel is that we see things at the wrong time, before we have had a chance to build up the necessary receptivity and when new information is therefore as useless and fugitive as necklace beads without a connecting chain.
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Reputation matters so much only because people so seldom think for themselves.
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One of our major flaws, and causes of unhappiness, is that we find it hard to take note of appreciate and be grateful for what is always around us. We suffer because we lose sight of the value of what is before us and yearn, often unfairly, for the imagined attraction elsewhere.
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Socrates, on being insulted in the marketplace, asked by a passerby, “Don’t you worry about being called names?” retorted, “Why? Do you think I should resent it if an ass had kicked me?
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We may seek a fortune for no greater reason than to secure the respect and attention of people who would otherwise look straight through us.
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Cynics are – beneath it all – only idealists with awkwardly high standards.
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When work is not going well, it’s useful to remember that our identities stretch beyond what is on the business card, that we were people long before we became workers – and will continue to be human once we have put our tools down forever.
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True respectability stems not from the will of the majority but from proper reasoning.
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There’s a whole category of people who miss out by not allowing themselves to be weird enough.
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Unnatural to expect that learning to be happy should be any easier than, say, learning to play the violin or require any less practice.
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Our sadness won’t be of the searing kind but more like a blend of joy and melancholy: joy at the perfection we see before us, melancholy at an awareness of how seldom we are sufficiently blessed to encounter anything of its kind.
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You normally have to be bashed about a bit by life to see the point of daffodils, sunsets and uneventful nice days.
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The only way to be happy is to realise how much depends on how you look at things
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