It’s hard loving those who don’t much like themselves: “If you’re so great, why would you think I’m so great.
ALAIN DE BOTTONEvery time we feel satisfied with what we have, we can be counted as rich, however little we may actually possess.
More Alain de Botton Quotes
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The challenge of modern relationships: how to prove more interesting than the other’s smartphone.
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People only get really interesting when they start to rattle the bars of their cages.
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Most good thinking has its origin in fear.
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Bad art might be defined as a series of bad choices about what to show and what to leave out.
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Intimacy is the capacity to be rather weird with someone – and finding that that’s ok with them.
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Writing isn’t a career choice. It’s self-medication that over time precipitates the madness it was meant to ward off.
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Out of the millions of people we live among, most of whom we habitually ignore and are ignored by in turn, there are always a few that hold hostage our capacity for happiness, whom we could recognize by their smell alone and whom we would rather die than be without.
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What kills us isn’t one big thing, but thousands of tiny obligations we can’t turn down for fear of disappointing others.
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Work is most fulfilling when you’re at the comfortable, exciting edge of not quite knowing what you are doing.
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The mind may be reluctant to think properly when thinking is all it is supposed to do; the task can be as paralysing as having to tell a joke or mimic an accent on demand.
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In a secularising world, art has replaced religion as a touchstone of our reverence and devotion.
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The telephone becomes an instrument of torture in the demonic hands of a beloved who doesn’t call.
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Envy: a confused, tangled guide to one’s own ambitions.
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One of the unexpectedly important things that art can do for us is to teach us how to suffer more successfully.
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Our sadness won’t be of the searing kind but more like a blend of joy and melancholy: joy at the perfection we see before us, melancholy at an awareness of how seldom we are sufficiently blessed to encounter anything of its kind.
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