The media insists on taking what someone didn’t mean to say as being far closer to the truth than what they did.
ALAIN DE BOTTONEvery time we feel satisfied with what we have, we can be counted as rich, however little we may actually possess.
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It is striking how much more seriously we are likely to be taken after we have been dead a few centuries.
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Our capacity to draw happiness from aesthetic objects or material goods in fact seems critically dependent on our first satisfying a more important range of emotional or psychological needs, among them the need for understanding, for love, expression and respect.
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It is in dialogue with pain that many beautiful things acquire their value. Acquaintance with grief turns out to be one of the more unusual prerequisites of architectural appreciation. We might, quite aside from all other requirements, need to be a little sad before buildings can properly touch us.
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Intimacy is the capacity to be rather weird with someone – and finding that that’s ok with them.
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Literature is the greatest reality simulator – a machine that puts you through infinitely more situations than you can ever directly witness.
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I learnt to stop fantasising about the perfect job or the perfect relationship because that can actually be an excuse for not living.
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Artistic accounts involve severe abbreviations of what reality will force upon us.
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What is fascinating about marriage is why anyone wants to get married.
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There’s a whole category of people who miss out by not allowing themselves to be weird enough.
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Forcing people to eat together is an effective way to promote tolerance.
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The only way to be happy is to realise how much depends on how you look at things
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The arrogance that says analysing the relationship between reasons and causes is more important than writing a philosophy of shyness or sadness or friendship drives me nuts. I can’t accept that.
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Maturity: the confidence to have no opinions on many things.
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So many complaints boil down to the belly ache of the fragile, mortal, ignored ego in a vast and indifferent universe.
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The activities of drawing, eating and drinking, all involve assimilations by the self of desirable elements from the world, a transfer of goodness from without to within.
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