The longing for destiny is nowhere stronger than in our romantic life.
ALAIN DE BOTTONAs adults, we try to develop the character traits that would have rescued our parents.
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The greatest difficulty of Travel is that one is forced to take oneself along.
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Travel agents would be wiser to ask us what we hope to change about our lives rather than simply where we wish to go.
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We need objects to remind us of the commitments we’ve made. That carpet from Morocco reminds us of the impulsive, freedom-loving side of ourselves we’re in danger of losing touch with. Beautiful furniture gives us something to live up to. All designed objects are propaganda for a way of life.
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There is real danger of a disconnect between what’s on your business card and who you are deep inside, and it’s not a disconnect that the world is ready to be patient with.
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Serious journalists often imagine society is adrift because people don’t know certain things.
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True love is a lack of desire to check one’s smartphone in another’s presence.
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What is fascinating about marriage is why anyone wants to get married.
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Perhaps it is true that we do not really exist until there is someone there to see us existing, we cannot properly speak until there is someone who can understand what we are saying in essence, we are not wholly alive until we are loved.
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Being content is perhaps no less easy than playing the violin well: and requires no less practice.
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We need a home in the psychological sense as much as we need one in the physical: to compensate for a vulnerability.
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The finest proof of our loyalty toward one another was our monstrous disloyalties towards everyone else.
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The inability to live in the present lies in the fear of leaving the sheltered position of anticipation or memory, and so of admitting that this is the only life that one is ever likely (heavenly intervention aside) to live.
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Every time we feel satisfied with what we have, we can be counted as rich, however little we may actually possess.
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One’s doing well if age improves even slightly one’s capacity to hold on to that vital truism: “This too shall pass.
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It looks like it’s wasting time, but literature is actually the ultimate time-saver – because it gives us access to a range of emotions and events that it would take you years, decades, millennia to try to experience directly.
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