Feeling lost, crazy and desperate belongs to a good life as much as optimism, certainty and reason.
ALAIN DE BOTTONAs adults, we try to develop the character traits that would have rescued our parents.
More Alain de Botton Quotes
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So many complaints boil down to the belly ache of the fragile, mortal, ignored ego in a vast and indifferent universe.
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Cynics are – beneath it all – only idealists with awkwardly high standards.
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When Proust urges us to evaluate the world properly, he repeatedly reminds us of the value of modest scenes.
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The only people we can think of as normal are those we don’t yet know very well.
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As victims of hurt, we frequently don’t bring up what ails us, because so many wounds look absurd in the light of day.
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It’s perhaps easier now than ever before to make a good living; it’s perhaps harder than ever before to stay calm, to be free of career anxiety.
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Insomnia is a glamorous term for thoughts you forgot to have in the day.
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We envy only those whom we feel ourselves to be like; we envy only members of our reference group. There are few successes more unendurable than those of our close friends.
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The attentions of others matter to us because we are afflicted by a congenital uncertainty as to our own value, as a result of which affliction we tend to allow others’ appraisals to play a determining role in how we see ourselves. Our sense of identity is held captive by the judgements of those we live among.
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One’s doing well if age improves even slightly one’s capacity to hold on to that vital truism: “This too shall pass.
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Maturity: knowing where you’re crazy, trying to warn others of the fact and striving to keep yourself under control.
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Our responses to the world are crucially moulded by the company we keep, for we temper our curiosity to fit in with the expectations of others.
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Most of us still caged within careers chosen for us by our not entirely worldly 18-22 year old selves.
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There may be significant things to learn about people by looking at what annoys them most.
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There is always the option of being emotionally lazy, that is, of quoting.
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