When Proust urges us to evaluate the world properly, he repeatedly reminds us of the value of modest scenes.
ALAIN DE BOTTONAs adults, we try to develop the character traits that would have rescued our parents.
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The company of certain people may excite our generosity and sensitivity, while that of others awakens our competitiveness and envy.
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Our greatest furies spring from events which violate our sense of the ground of our existence.
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One’s doing well if age improves even slightly one’s capacity to hold on to that vital truism: “This too shall pass.
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to design means forcing ourselves to unlearn what we believe we already know, patiently to take apart the mechanisms behind our reflexes and to acknowledge the mystery and stupefying complexity of everyday gestures like switching off a light of turning on a tap
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We should not feel embarrassed by our difficulties, only by our failure to grow anything beautiful from them.
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At the heart of every frustration lies a basic structure: the collision of a wish with an unyielding reality.
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The greatest difficulty of Travel is that one is forced to take oneself along.
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Feeling lost, crazy and desperate belongs to a good life as much as optimism, certainty and reason.
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I learnt to stop fantasising about the perfect job or the perfect relationship because that can actually be an excuse for not living.
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Differ though we might with Christianity’s view of what precisely our souls need, it is hard to discredit the provocative underlying thesis.
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The telephone becomes an instrument of torture in the demonic hands of a beloved who doesn’t call.
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The very act of drawing an object, however badly, swiftly takes the drawer from a woolly sense of what the object looks like to a precise awareness of its component parts and particularities.
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Dreams reveal we never quite get ‘over’ anything: it’s all still in there somewhere.
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…if the beginnings of love and amorous politics are equally rosy, then the ends may be equally bloody.
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What is a snob? A snob is anybody who takes a small part of you and uses that to come to a complete vision of who you are. That is snobbery.
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