We each appear to hold within ourselves a range of divergent views as to our native qualities.. And amid such uncertainty, we typically turn to the wider world to settle the question of our significance.. we seem beholden to affections of others to endure ourselves.
ALAIN DE BOTTONAs adults, we try to develop the character traits that would have rescued our parents.
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My writing always came out of a very personal place, out of an attempt to stay sane.
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To one’s enemies: “I hate myself more than you ever could.
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Only as we mature does affection begin to depend on achievement.
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Journeys are the midwives of thought. Few places are more conducive to internal conversations than moving planes, ships or trains.
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Most anger stems from feelings of weakness, sadness and fear: hard to remember when one is at the receiving end of its defiant roar.
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It’s hard loving those who don’t much like themselves: “If you’re so great, why would you think I’m so great.
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True love is a lack of desire to check one’s smartphone in another’s presence.
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At the heart of every frustration lies a basic structure: the collision of a wish with an unyielding reality.
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The mind does most of its best thinking when we aren’t there. The answers are there in the morning.
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One of the better guarantors of ending up in a good relationship: an advanced capacity to be alone.
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What is fascinating about marriage is why anyone wants to get married.
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The longing for destiny is nowhere stronger than in our romantic life.
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The arrogance that says analysing the relationship between reasons and causes is more important than writing a philosophy of shyness or sadness or friendship drives me nuts. I can’t accept that.
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Because it’s bad enough not getting what you want, but it’s even worse to have an idea of what it is you want and find out at the end of the journey that it isn’t, in fact, what you wanted all along.
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Most of our childhood is stored not in photos, but in certain biscuits, lights of day, smells, textures of carpet.
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