A notorious inability to express emotions makes human beings the only animals capable of suicide.
ALAIN DE BOTTONAs adults, we try to develop the character traits that would have rescued our parents.
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You need a long hard day’s work to reveal the logic of the craving for very bad tv and alcohol.
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For paranoia about ‘what other people think’ : remember that only some hate, a very few love – and almost all just don’t care.
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When work is not going well, it’s useful to remember that our identities stretch beyond what is on the business card, that we were people long before we became workers – and will continue to be human once we have put our tools down forever.
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William James once made an acute point about the relationship between happiness and expectation. He argued that satisfaction with ourselves does not require us to succeed in every endeavour.
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Every realistic picture represents a choice as to which features of reality should be given prominence; no painting ever captures the whole.
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We each appear to hold within ourselves a range of divergent views as to our native qualities.. And amid such uncertainty, we typically turn to the wider world to settle the question of our significance.. we seem beholden to affections of others to endure ourselves.
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Forgiveness requires a sense that bad behaviour is a sign of suffering rather than malice.
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Getting to the top has an unfortunate tendency to persuade people that the system is OK after all.
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We should read other people’s books in order to learn what we feel; it is our own thoughts we should be developing, even if it is another writer’s thought that help us to do so.
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If one felt successful, there’d be so little incentive to be successful.
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We may seek a fortune for no greater reason than to secure the respect and attention of people who would otherwise look straight through us.
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We study biology, physics, movements of glaciers… Where are the classes on envy, feeling wronged, despair, bitterness.
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Art holds out the promise of inner wholeness.
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My writing always came out of a very personal place, out of an attempt to stay sane.
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The longing for destiny is nowhere stronger than in our romantic life.
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