What should worry us is not the number of people that oppose us, but how good their reasons are for doing so.
ALAIN DE BOTTONAnyone who isn’t embarrassed of who they were last year probably isn’t learning enough.
More Alain de Botton Quotes
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There is no such thing as work-life balance. Everything worth fighting for unbalances your life.
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Mental health: having enough safe places in your mind for your thoughts to settle.
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The pleasure we derive from journeys is perhaps dependent more on the mindset with which we travel than on the destination we travel to.
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He did not mean to depress us, rather to free us from expectations which inspire bitterness. It is consoling, when love has let us down, to hear that happiness was never part of the plan.
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Most of our childhood is stored not in photos, but in certain biscuits, lights of day, smells, textures of carpet.
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Not everyone is worth listening to.
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Intuition is unconscious accumulated experience informing judgement in real time.
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Our greatest furies spring from events which violate our sense of the ground of our existence.
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True love is a lack of desire to check one’s smartphone in another’s presence.
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The greatest difficulty of Travel is that one is forced to take oneself along.
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What we seek, at the deepest level, is inwardly to resemble, rather than physically to possess, the objects and places that touch us through their beauty.
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The need for love hallucinates a prince or princess. The oasis complex is never a complete delusion: the man in the desert does see something on the horizon. It is just that the palms have withered, the well is dry, and the place is infected with locusts.
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What is fascinating about marriage is why anyone wants to get married.
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We are presented with an unpleasant choice between either committing to peculiar concepts about immaterial deities or letting go entirely of a host of consoling, subtle or just charming rituals for which we struggle to find equivalents in secular society.
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Politics is so difficult, it’s generally only people who aren’t quite up to the task who feel convinced they are.
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