A notorious inability to express emotions makes human beings the only animals capable of suicide.
ALAIN DE BOTTONThe finest proof of our loyalty toward one another was our monstrous disloyalties towards everyone else.
More Alain de Botton Quotes
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One kind of good book should leave you asking: how did the author know that about me?
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As adults, we try to develop the character traits that would have rescued our parents.
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The materialistic view of happiness of our age starkly revealed in our understanding of the word “luxury.
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My writing always came out of a very personal place, out of an attempt to stay sane.
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Once I began to consider everything as being of potential interest, objects released latent layers of value.
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We don’t really learn anything properly until there is a problem, until we are in pain, until something fails to go as we had hoped … We suffer, therefore we think.
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Anyone who isn’t embarrassed of who they were last year probably isn’t learning enough.
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The inability to live in the present lies in the fear of leaving the sheltered position of anticipation or memory, and so of admitting that this is the only life that one is ever likely (heavenly intervention aside) to live.
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Artistic accounts involve severe abbreviations of what reality will force upon us.
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If one felt successful, there’d be so little incentive to be successful.
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The dream of the news is that it makes us care about other people and situations. But we cannot identify with people to whom we haven’t been introduced. Humans will only respond to art, to people who are skilled in making you care.
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Our jobs make relentless calls on a narrow band of our faculties, reducing our chances of achieving rounded personalities and leaving us to suspect (often in the gathering darkness of a Sunday evening) that much of who we are, or could be, has gone unexplored.
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The longing for a destiny is no nowhere stronger than in our romantic life. All too often forced to share our bed with those who cannot fathom our soul, can we not be forgiven if we believe ourselves fated to stumble one day upon the man or woman of our dreams.
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The good parent: someone who doesn’t mind, for a time, being hated by their children.
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There is real danger of a disconnect between what’s on your business card and who you are deep inside, and it’s not a disconnect that the world is ready to be patient with.
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