Maturity: the confidence to have no opinions on many things.
ALAIN DE BOTTONThe finest proof of our loyalty toward one another was our monstrous disloyalties towards everyone else.
More Alain de Botton Quotes
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Don’t despair: despair suggests you are in total control and know what is coming. You don’t – surrender to events with hope.
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It’s hard loving those who don’t much like themselves: “If you’re so great, why would you think I’m so great.
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True love is a lack of desire to check one’s smartphone in another’s presence.
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You normally have to be bashed about a bit by life to see the point of daffodils, sunsets and uneventful nice days.
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It is in dialogue with pain that many beautiful things acquire their value. Acquaintance with grief turns out to be one of the more unusual prerequisites of architectural appreciation. We might, quite aside from all other requirements, need to be a little sad before buildings can properly touch us.
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Literature deserves its prestige for one reason above all others – because it’s a tool to help us live and die with a little bit more wisdom, goodness, and sanity.
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My writing always came out of a very personal place, out of an attempt to stay sane.
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The materialistic view of happiness of our age starkly revealed in our understanding of the word “luxury.
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The pleasure we derive from journeys is perhaps dependent more on the mindset with which we travel than on the destination we travel to.
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As victims of hurt, we frequently don’t bring up what ails us, because so many wounds look absurd in the light of day.
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We keep a special place in our hearts for people who refuse to be impressed by us.
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Reputation matters so much only because people so seldom think for themselves.
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Out of the millions of people we live among, most of whom we habitually ignore and are ignored by in turn, there are always a few that hold hostage our capacity for happiness, whom we could recognize by their smell alone and whom we would rather die than be without.
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Do you love me enough that I may be weak with you? Everyone loves strength, but do you love me for my weakness? That is the real test.
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Most of what makes a book ‘good’ is that we are reading it at the right moment for us.
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