Happiness is impossible for longer than 15 minutes. We are the descendants of creatures who, above all else, worried.
ALAIN DE BOTTONThe finest proof of our loyalty toward one another was our monstrous disloyalties towards everyone else.
More Alain de Botton Quotes
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Out of the millions of people we live among, most of whom we habitually ignore and are ignored by in turn, there are always a few that hold hostage our capacity for happiness, whom we could recognize by their smell alone and whom we would rather die than be without.
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As victims of hurt, we frequently don’t bring up what ails us, because so many wounds look absurd in the light of day.
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You normally have to be bashed about a bit by life to see the point of daffodils, sunsets and uneventful nice days.
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There is always the option of being emotionally lazy, that is, of quoting.
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People who readily accept the need for a gym will resist that their personalities might need some work too.
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What is a snob? A snob is anybody who takes a small part of you and uses that to come to a complete vision of who you are. That is snobbery.
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Intuition is unconscious accumulated experience informing judgement in real time.
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Most good thinking has its origin in fear.
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The best cure for one’s bad tendencies is to see them in action in another person.
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Most of what makes a book ‘good’ is that we are reading it at the right moment for us.
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One kind of good book should leave you asking: how did the author know that about me?
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Which seems no less relevant in the secular realm than in the religious one-that we have within us a precious, childlike, vulnerable core which we should nourish and nurture on its turbulent journey through life.
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Our sadness won’t be of the searing kind but more like a blend of joy and melancholy: joy at the perfection we see before us, melancholy at an awareness of how seldom we are sufficiently blessed to encounter anything of its kind.
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Maturity: knowing where you’re crazy, trying to warn others of the fact and striving to keep yourself under control.
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Reputation matters so much only because people so seldom think for themselves.
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