To be shown love is to feel ourselves the object of concern: our presence is noted, our name is registered, our views are listened to, our failings are treated with indulgence and our needs are ministered to. And under such care, we flourish.
ALAIN DE BOTTONThe finest proof of our loyalty toward one another was our monstrous disloyalties towards everyone else.
More Alain de Botton Quotes
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Feeling lost, crazy and desperate belongs to a good life as much as optimism, certainty and reason.
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The moment we cry in a film is not when things are sad but when they turn out to be more beautiful than we expected them to be.
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One of the unexpectedly important things that art can do for us is to teach us how to suffer more successfully.
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One’s doing well if age improves even slightly one’s capacity to hold on to that vital truism: “This too shall pass.
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Though it may feel otherwise, enjoying life is no more dangerous than apprehending it with continuous anxiety and gloom.
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Only by declaring a book completely finished can one start to see how much remains to be done on it.
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Literature is the greatest reality simulator – a machine that puts you through infinitely more situations than you can ever directly witness.
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Our responses to the world are crucially moulded by the company we keep, for we temper our curiosity to fit in with the expectations of others.
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Curiosity takes ignorance seriously – and is confident enough to admit when it’s in the dark. It is aware of not knowing. And then it sets out to do something about it.
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The greatest difficulty of Travel is that one is forced to take oneself along.
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A successful work will draw out the features capable of exciting a sense of beauty and interest in the spectator.
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Bitterness: anger that forgot where it came from.
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Never too late to learn some embarrassingly basic, stupidly obvious things about oneself.
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Intimacy is the capacity to be rather weird with someone – and finding that that’s ok with them.
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Differ though we might with Christianity’s view of what precisely our souls need, it is hard to discredit the provocative underlying thesis.
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