Everyone returns us to a different sense of ourselves, for we become a little of who they think we are.
ALAIN DE BOTTONThere’s a whole category of people who miss out by not allowing themselves to be weird enough.
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The blunt large questions become connected to smaller, apparently esoteric ones.
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Intuition is unconscious accumulated experience informing judgement in real time.
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What kills us isn’t one big thing, but thousands of tiny obligations we can’t turn down for fear of disappointing others.
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People only get really interesting when they start to rattle the bars of their cages.
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The greatest works of art speak to us without knowing us.
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For paranoia about ‘what other people think’ : remember that only some hate, a very few love – and almost all just don’t care.
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Newspapers are being read all around. The point is not, of course, to glean new information, but rather to coax the mind out of its sleep-induced introspective temper.
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Taking photographs can assuage the itch for possession sparked by the beauty of a place; our anxiety over losing a precious scene can decline with every click of the shutter.
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I went to church and couldn’t swallow it. The music was nice but I don’t belong there.
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We read the weird tales in newspapers to crowd out the even weirder stuff inside us.
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Every realistic picture represents a choice as to which features of reality should be given prominence; no painting ever captures the whole.
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William James once made an acute point about the relationship between happiness and expectation. He argued that satisfaction with ourselves does not require us to succeed in every endeavour.
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Only as we mature does affection begin to depend on achievement.
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Most good thinking has its origin in fear.
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If our lives are dominated by a search for happiness, then perhaps few activities reveal as much about the dynamics of this quest – in all its ardour and paradoxes – than our travels.
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