You have to be quite heavily invested in someone to do them the honour of telling them you’re annoyed with them.
ALAIN DE BOTTONThere’s a whole category of people who miss out by not allowing themselves to be weird enough.
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A notorious inability to express emotions makes human beings the only animals capable of suicide.
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So many complaints boil down to the belly ache of the fragile, mortal, ignored ego in a vast and indifferent universe.
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I passionately believe that’s it’s not just what you say that counts, it’s also how you say it – that the success of your argument critically depends on your manner of presenting it.
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It is perhaps when our lives are at their most problematic that we are likely to be most receptive to beautiful things.
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The dream of the news is that it makes us care about other people and situations. But we cannot identify with people to whom we haven’t been introduced. Humans will only respond to art, to people who are skilled in making you care.
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These inventors were elevating the formulation of entrepreneurial ideas to the status of a visionary activity. Though forced to justify their efforts in the pragmatic language of venture capital, they were at heart utopian thinkers intent on transforming the world.
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We each appear to hold within ourselves a range of divergent views as to our native qualities.. And amid such uncertainty, we typically turn to the wider world to settle the question of our significance.. we seem beholden to affections of others to endure ourselves.
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When Proust urges us to evaluate the world properly, he repeatedly reminds us of the value of modest scenes.
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The company of certain people may excite our generosity and sensitivity, while that of others awakens our competitiveness and envy.
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Cynics are – beneath it all – only idealists with awkwardly high standards.
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It is not just nature that defies us. Human life is as overwhelming… If we spend time in it [the vast spaces of nature], they may help us to accept more graciously the great, unfathomable events that molest our lives and will inevitably return us to dust.
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You need a long hard day’s work to reveal the logic of the craving for very bad tv and alcohol.
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We are all more intelligent than we are capable, and awareness of the insanity of love has never saved anyone from the disease.
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It was no longer her absence that wounded me, but my growing indifference to it. Forgetting, however calming, was also a reminder of infidelity to what I had at one time held so dear.
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One rarely falls in love without being as much attracted to what is interestingly wrong with someone as what is objectively healthy.
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