Serious journalists often imagine society is adrift because people don’t know certain things.
ALAIN DE BOTTONThose who divorce aren’t necessarily the most unhappy, just those neatly able to believe their misery is caused by one other person.
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When Proust urges us to evaluate the world properly, he repeatedly reminds us of the value of modest scenes.
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Our jobs make relentless calls on a narrow band of our faculties, reducing our chances of achieving rounded personalities and leaving us to suspect (often in the gathering darkness of a Sunday evening) that much of who we are, or could be, has gone unexplored.
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I think people want to get married to end their emotional uncertainty. In a way, they want to end powerful feelings, or certainly the negative ones.
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You normally have to be bashed about a bit by life to see the point of daffodils, sunsets and uneventful nice days.
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There may be significant things to learn about people by looking at what annoys them most.
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A successful work will draw out the features capable of exciting a sense of beauty and interest in the spectator.
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Don’t despair: despair suggests you are in total control and know what is coming. You don’t – surrender to events with hope.
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It is perhaps sad books that best console us when we are sad.
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Everyone wants a better life: very few of us want to be better people.
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Not being understood may be taken as a sign that there is much in one to understand.
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It is not just nature that defies us. Human life is as overwhelming… If we spend time in it [the vast spaces of nature], they may help us to accept more graciously the great, unfathomable events that molest our lives and will inevitably return us to dust.
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A danger of travel is that we see things at the wrong time, before we have had a chance to build up the necessary receptivity and when new information is therefore as useless and fugitive as necklace beads without a connecting chain.
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We often lose our tempers not with those who are actually to blame; just with those who love us enough to forgive us our foul moods.
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One of the unexpectedly important things that art can do for us is to teach us how to suffer more successfully.
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There are selections so acute that they come to define a place, with the result that we can no longer travel through that landscape without being reminded of what a great artist noticed there.
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