When you look at the Moon, you think, ‘I’m really small. What are my problems?’ It sets things into perspective. We should all look at the Moon a bit more often.
ALAIN DE BOTTONThose who divorce aren’t necessarily the most unhappy, just those neatly able to believe their misery is caused by one other person.
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Most of our childhood is stored not in photos, but in certain biscuits, lights of day, smells, textures of carpet.
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Curiosity takes ignorance seriously – and is confident enough to admit when it’s in the dark. It is aware of not knowing. And then it sets out to do something about it.
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It is perhaps when our lives are at their most problematic that we are likely to be most receptive to beautiful things.
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We each appear to hold within ourselves a range of divergent views as to our native qualities.. And amid such uncertainty, we typically turn to the wider world to settle the question of our significance.. we seem beholden to affections of others to endure ourselves.
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In a secularising world, art has replaced religion as a touchstone of our reverence and devotion.
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It is not just nature that defies us. Human life is as overwhelming… If we spend time in it [the vast spaces of nature], they may help us to accept more graciously the great, unfathomable events that molest our lives and will inevitably return us to dust.
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Most anger stems from feelings of weakness, sadness and fear: hard to remember when one is at the receiving end of its defiant roar.
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Only as we mature does affection begin to depend on achievement.
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The company of certain people may excite our generosity and sensitivity, while that of others awakens our competitiveness and envy.
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A virtuous, ordinary life, striving for wisdom but never far from folly, is achievement enough.
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Being content is perhaps no less easy than playing the violin well: and requires no less practice.
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There is a longing for a return to a time without the need for choices, free of the regret at the inevitable loss that all choice (however wonderful) has entailed.
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The good parent: someone who doesn’t mind, for a time, being hated by their children.
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We often lose our tempers not with those who are actually to blame; just with those who love us enough to forgive us our foul moods.
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Perhaps it is true that we do not really exist until there is someone there to see us existing, we cannot properly speak until there is someone who can understand what we are saying in essence, we are not wholly alive until we are loved.
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