Most good thinking has its origin in fear.
ALAIN DE BOTTONThose who divorce aren’t necessarily the most unhappy, just those neatly able to believe their misery is caused by one other person.
More Alain de Botton Quotes
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Forcing people to eat together is an effective way to promote tolerance.
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Bitterness: anger that forgot where it came from.
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In the gap between who we wish one day to be and who we are at present, must come pain, anxiety, envy and humiliation.
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How do the stems connect to the roots?’ ‘Where is the mist coming from?’ ‘Why does one tree seem darker than another?’ These questions are implicitly asked and answered in the process of sketching.
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Work finally begins when the fear of doing nothing exceeds the fear of doing it badly.
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We need a home in the psychological sense as much as we need one in the physical: to compensate for a vulnerability.
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Perhaps it is true that we do not really exist until there is someone there to see us existing, we cannot properly speak until there is someone who can understand what we are saying in essence, we are not wholly alive until we are loved.
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The largest part of what we call ‘personality’ is determined by how we’ve opted to defend ourselves against anxiety and sadness”.
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At the heart of every frustration lies a basic structure: the collision of a wish with an unyielding reality.
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The very act of drawing an object, however badly, swiftly takes the drawer from a woolly sense of what the object looks like to a precise awareness of its component parts and particularities.
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Intimacy is the capacity to be rather weird with someone – and finding that that’s ok with them.
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Unhappiness can stem from having only one perspective to play with.
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The greatest difficulty of Travel is that one is forced to take oneself along.
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Endeavoring to purchase something we think beautiful may in fact be the most unimaginative way of dealing with the longing it excites in us, just as trying to sleep with someone may be the bluntest response to a feeling of love.
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When Proust urges us to evaluate the world properly, he repeatedly reminds us of the value of modest scenes.
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