It was no longer her absence that wounded me, but my growing indifference to it. Forgetting, however calming, was also a reminder of infidelity to what I had at one time held so dear.
ALAIN DE BOTTONNever too late to learn some embarrassingly basic, stupidly obvious things about oneself.
More Alain de Botton Quotes
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The best cure for one’s bad tendencies is to see them in action in another person.
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For paranoia about ‘what other people think’ : remember that only some hate, a very few love – and almost all just don’t care.
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Good sex isn’t just fun, it keeps us sane and happy. Having sex with someone makes us feel wanted, alive and potent.
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Anyone who isn’t embarrassed of who they were last year probably isn’t learning enough.
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When I see someone like Richard Dawkins, I see my father. I grew up with that. I’m basically the child of Richard Dawkins.
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Socrates, on being insulted in the marketplace, asked by a passerby, “Don’t you worry about being called names?” retorted, “Why? Do you think I should resent it if an ass had kicked me?
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One kind of good book should leave you asking: how did the author know that about me?
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Our greatest furies spring from events which violate our sense of the ground of our existence.
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The mind may be reluctant to think properly when thinking is all it is supposed to do; the task can be as paralysing as having to tell a joke or mimic an accent on demand.
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It is perhaps when our lives are at their most problematic that we are likely to be most receptive to beautiful things.
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Envy: a confused, tangled guide to one’s own ambitions.
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In their different ways, art and philosophy help us, in Schopenhauer’s words, to turn pain into knowledge.
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As we write, so we build: to keep a record of what matters to us.
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Curiosity takes ignorance seriously – and is confident enough to admit when it’s in the dark. It is aware of not knowing. And then it sets out to do something about it.
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The good parent: someone who doesn’t mind, for a time, being hated by their children.
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