A ‘good job’ can be both practically attractive while still not good enough to devote your entire life to.
ALAIN DE BOTTONA virtuous, ordinary life, striving for wisdom but never far from folly, is achievement enough.
More Alain de Botton Quotes
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One’s doing well if age improves even slightly one’s capacity to hold on to that vital truism: “This too shall pass.
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Once I began to consider everything as being of potential interest, objects released latent layers of value.
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Our capacity to draw happiness from aesthetic objects or material goods in fact seems critically dependent on our first satisfying a more important range of emotional or psychological needs, among them the need for understanding, for love, expression and respect.
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Every realistic picture represents a choice as to which features of reality should be given prominence; no painting ever captures the whole.
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I am in general a very pessimistic person with an optimistic, day to day take on things. The bare facts of life are utterly terrifying. And yet, one can laugh. Indeed, one has to laugh precisely because of the darkness: the nervous laughter of the trenches.
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It is striking how much more seriously we are likely to be taken after we have been dead a few centuries.
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Although I don’t believe in God, Bach’s music shows me what a love of God must feel like.
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The largest part of what we call ‘personality’ is determined by how we’ve opted to defend ourselves against anxiety and sadness”.
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It seems that most of us could benefit from a brush with a near-fatal disaster to help us recognise the important things that we are too defeated or embittered to recognise from day to day.
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Architects themselves tend to shy away from the word, preferring instead to talk about the manipulation of space.
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Our homes do not have to offer us permanent occupancy or store our clothes to merit the name. To speak of home in relation to a building is simply to recognise its harmony with our own prized internal song. Home can be an airport or a library, a garden or a motorway diner.
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One rarely falls in love without being as much attracted to what is interestingly wrong with someone as what is objectively healthy.
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The longing for a destiny is no nowhere stronger than in our romantic life. All too often forced to share our bed with those who cannot fathom our soul, can we not be forgiven if we believe ourselves fated to stumble one day upon the man or woman of our dreams.
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Cynics are – beneath it all – only idealists with awkwardly high standards.
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There is a devilishly direct relationship between the significance of an idea and how nervous we become at the prospect of having to think about it.
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