Not everyone is worth listening to.
ALAIN DE BOTTONIntimacy is the capacity to be rather weird with someone – and finding that that’s ok with them.
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In the oasis complex, the thirsty man images he sees water, palm trees, and shade not because he has evidence for the belief, but because he has a need for it. Desperate needs bring about a hallucination of their solution: thirst hallucinates water.
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Insomnia is a glamorous term for thoughts you forgot to have in the day.
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One of the better guarantors of ending up in a good relationship: an advanced capacity to be alone.
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The mind does most of its best thinking when we aren’t there. The answers are there in the morning.
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Work is most fulfilling when you’re at the comfortable, exciting edge of not quite knowing what you are doing.
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Art cannot single-handedly create enthusiasm… it merely contributes to enthusiasm and guides us to be more conscious of feelings that we might previously have experienced only tentatively or hurriedly.
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True respectability stems not from the will of the majority but from proper reasoning.
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Architects themselves tend to shy away from the word, preferring instead to talk about the manipulation of space.
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The media insists on taking what someone didn’t mean to say as being far closer to the truth than what they did.
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Socrates, on being insulted in the marketplace, asked by a passerby, “Don’t you worry about being called names?” retorted, “Why? Do you think I should resent it if an ass had kicked me?
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It was no longer her absence that wounded me, but my growing indifference to it. Forgetting, however calming, was also a reminder of infidelity to what I had at one time held so dear.
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As we write, so we build: to keep a record of what matters to us.
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Bad art might be defined as a series of bad choices about what to show and what to leave out.
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Anyone who isn’t embarrassed of who they were last year probably isn’t learning enough.
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At the heart of every frustration lies a basic structure: the collision of a wish with an unyielding reality.
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