The company of certain people may excite our generosity and sensitivity, while that of others awakens our competitiveness and envy.
ALAIN DE BOTTONThe dream of the news is that it makes us care about other people and situations. But we cannot identify with people to whom we haven’t been introduced. Humans will only respond to art, to people who are skilled in making you care.
More Alain de Botton Quotes
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Curiosity takes ignorance seriously – and is confident enough to admit when it’s in the dark. It is aware of not knowing. And then it sets out to do something about it.
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I feel that the great challenge of our time is the communication of ideas.
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Mental health: having enough safe places in your mind for your thoughts to settle.
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Rather than employing it as a supplement to active, conscious seeing, they used the medium as a substitute, paying less attention to the world than they had done previously, taking it on faith that photography automatically assured them possession of it.
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There are selections so acute that they come to define a place, with the result that we can no longer travel through that landscape without being reminded of what a great artist noticed there.
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What should worry us is not the number of people that oppose us, but how good their reasons are for doing so.
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What we seek, at the deepest level, is inwardly to resemble, rather than physically to possess, the objects and places that touch us through their beauty.
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Although I don’t believe in God, Bach’s music shows me what a love of God must feel like.
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Reputation matters so much only because people so seldom think for themselves.
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In the oasis complex, the thirsty man images he sees water, palm trees, and shade not because he has evidence for the belief, but because he has a need for it. Desperate needs bring about a hallucination of their solution: thirst hallucinates water.
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The only way to be happy is to realise how much depends on how you look at things
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Once I began to consider everything as being of potential interest, objects released latent layers of value.
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Memory is… similar to anticipation: an instrument of simplification and selection.
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The most attractive are not those who allow us to kiss them at once [we soon feel ungrateful] or those who never allow us to kiss them [we soon forget them], but those who coyly lead us between the two extremes.
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Paying tax should be framed as a glorious civic duty worthy of gratitude – not a punishment for making money.
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