Envy: a confused, tangled guide to one’s own ambitions.
ALAIN DE BOTTONKant and Hegel are interesting thinkers. But I am happy to insist that they are also terrible writers.
More Alain de Botton Quotes
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In the gap between who we wish one day to be and who we are at present, must come pain, anxiety, envy and humiliation.
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There are selections so acute that they come to define a place, with the result that we can no longer travel through that landscape without being reminded of what a great artist noticed there.
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People who readily accept the need for a gym will resist that their personalities might need some work too.
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Our homes do not have to offer us permanent occupancy or store our clothes to merit the name. To speak of home in relation to a building is simply to recognise its harmony with our own prized internal song. Home can be an airport or a library, a garden or a motorway diner.
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One of our major flaws, and causes of unhappiness, is that we find it hard to take note of appreciate and be grateful for what is always around us. We suffer because we lose sight of the value of what is before us and yearn, often unfairly, for the imagined attraction elsewhere.
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People only get really interesting when they start to rattle the bars of their cages.
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Must being in love always mean being in pain?
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We keep a special place in our hearts for people who refuse to be impressed by us.
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One kind of good book should leave you asking: how did the author know that about me?
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Wealth is not an absolute. It is relative to desire. Every time we yearn for something we cannot afford, we grow poorer, whatever our resources. And every time we feel satisfied with what we have, we can be counted as rich, however little we may actually possess.
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The longing for a destiny is no nowhere stronger than in our romantic life. All too often forced to share our bed with those who cannot fathom our soul, can we not be forgiven if we believe ourselves fated to stumble one day upon the man or woman of our dreams.
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Work finally begins when the fear of doing nothing exceeds the fear of doing it badly.
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Literature deeply stands opposed to the dominant value system-the one that rewards money and power. Writers are on the other side-they make us sympathetic to ideas and feelings that are of deep importance but can’t afford airtime in a commercialized, status-consciou s, and cynical world.
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One rarely falls in love without being as much attracted to what is interestingly wrong with someone as what is objectively healthy.
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Memory is… similar to anticipation: an instrument of simplification and selection.
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