Because it’s bad enough not getting what you want, but it’s even worse to have an idea of what it is you want and find out at the end of the journey that it isn’t, in fact, what you wanted all along.
ALAIN DE BOTTONKant and Hegel are interesting thinkers. But I am happy to insist that they are also terrible writers.
More Alain de Botton Quotes
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Literature is the greatest reality simulator – a machine that puts you through infinitely more situations than you can ever directly witness.
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The inability to live in the present lies in the fear of leaving the sheltered position of anticipation or memory, and so of admitting that this is the only life that one is ever likely (heavenly intervention aside) to live.
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There’s a whole category of people who miss out by not allowing themselves to be weird enough.
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What should worry us is not the number of people that oppose us, but how good their reasons are for doing so.
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We should read other people’s books in order to learn what we feel; it is our own thoughts we should be developing, even if it is another writer’s thought that help us to do so.
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A notorious inability to express emotions makes human beings the only animals capable of suicide.
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The very act of drawing an object, however badly, swiftly takes the drawer from a woolly sense of what the object looks like to a precise awareness of its component parts and particularities.
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Artistic accounts involve severe abbreviations of what reality will force upon us.
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Being content is perhaps no less easy than playing the violin well: and requires no less practice.
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Curiosity takes ignorance seriously – and is confident enough to admit when it’s in the dark. It is aware of not knowing. And then it sets out to do something about it.
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A danger of travel is that we see things at the wrong time, before we have had a chance to build up the necessary receptivity and when new information is therefore as useless and fugitive as necklace beads without a connecting chain.
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Yet often, they know but just don’t care. So the task of serious journalism isn’t just to lay out truths. It is to make vital truths compelling to a big audience.
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The only people we can think of as normal are those we don’t yet know very well.
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A virtuous, ordinary life, striving for wisdom but never far from folly, is achievement enough.
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We each appear to hold within ourselves a range of divergent views as to our native qualities.. And amid such uncertainty, we typically turn to the wider world to settle the question of our significance.. we seem beholden to affections of others to endure ourselves.
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