Mental health: having enough safe places in your mind for your thoughts to settle.
ALAIN DE BOTTONWork is most fulfilling when you’re at the comfortable, exciting edge of not quite knowing what you are doing.
More Alain de Botton Quotes
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Bad art might be defined as a series of bad choices about what to show and what to leave out.
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Our responses to the world are crucially moulded by the company we keep, for we temper our curiosity to fit in with the expectations of others.
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Anyone who isn’t embarrassed of who they were last year probably isn’t learning enough.
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We envy only those whom we feel ourselves to be like; we envy only members of our reference group. There are few successes more unendurable than those of our close friends.
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What we seek, at the deepest level, is inwardly to resemble, rather than physically to possess, the objects and places that touch us through their beauty.
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We are presented with an unpleasant choice between either committing to peculiar concepts about immaterial deities or letting go entirely of a host of consoling, subtle or just charming rituals for which we struggle to find equivalents in secular society.
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Every time we feel satisfied with what we have, we can be counted as rich, however little we may actually possess.
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The attentions of others matter to us because we are afflicted by a congenital uncertainty as to our own value, as a result of which affliction we tend to allow others’ appraisals to play a determining role in how we see ourselves. Our sense of identity is held captive by the judgements of those we live among.
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There are selections so acute that they come to define a place, with the result that we can no longer travel through that landscape without being reminded of what a great artist noticed there.
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Maturity: the confidence to have no opinions on many things.
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A successful work will draw out the features capable of exciting a sense of beauty and interest in the spectator.
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As adults, we try to develop the character traits that would have rescued our parents.
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To one’s enemies: “I hate myself more than you ever could.
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We need a home in the psychological sense as much as we need one in the physical: to compensate for a vulnerability.
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I feel that the great challenge of our time is the communication of ideas.
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