We don’t really learn anything properly until there is a problem, until we are in pain, until something fails to go as we had hoped … We suffer, therefore we think.
ALAIN DE BOTTONWork is most fulfilling when you’re at the comfortable, exciting edge of not quite knowing what you are doing.
More Alain de Botton Quotes
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The longing for a destiny is no nowhere stronger than in our romantic life. All too often forced to share our bed with those who cannot fathom our soul, can we not be forgiven if we believe ourselves fated to stumble one day upon the man or woman of our dreams.
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Unhappiness can stem from having only one perspective to play with.
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Every time we feel satisfied with what we have, we can be counted as rich, however little we may actually possess.
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How do the stems connect to the roots?’ ‘Where is the mist coming from?’ ‘Why does one tree seem darker than another?’ These questions are implicitly asked and answered in the process of sketching.
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Only as we mature does affection begin to depend on achievement.
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Feeling lost, crazy and desperate belongs to a good life as much as optimism, certainty and reason.
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What I want to argue for is not that we should give up on our ideas of success, but that we should make sure that they are our own. We should focus in on our ideas and make sure that we own them, that we’re truly the authors of our own ambitions.
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I went to church and couldn’t swallow it. The music was nice but I don’t belong there.
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A danger of travel is that we see things at the wrong time, before we have had a chance to build up the necessary receptivity and when new information is therefore as useless and fugitive as necklace beads without a connecting chain.
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Differ though we might with Christianity’s view of what precisely our souls need, it is hard to discredit the provocative underlying thesis.
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One kind of good book should leave you asking: how did the author know that about me?
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True love is a lack of desire to check one’s smartphone in another’s presence.
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People only get really interesting when they start to rattle the bars of their cages.
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One of the better guarantors of ending up in a good relationship: an advanced capacity to be alone.
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We often lose our tempers not with those who are actually to blame; just with those who love us enough to forgive us our foul moods.
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