Art cannot single-handedly create enthusiasm… it merely contributes to enthusiasm and guides us to be more conscious of feelings that we might previously have experienced only tentatively or hurriedly.
ALAIN DE BOTTONMemory is… similar to anticipation: an instrument of simplification and selection.
More Alain de Botton Quotes
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I feel that the great challenge of our time is the communication of ideas.
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Endeavoring to purchase something we think beautiful may in fact be the most unimaginative way of dealing with the longing it excites in us, just as trying to sleep with someone may be the bluntest response to a feeling of love.
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Once I began to consider everything as being of potential interest, objects released latent layers of value.
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The most attractive are not those who allow us to kiss them at once [we soon feel ungrateful] or those who never allow us to kiss them [we soon forget them], but those who coyly lead us between the two extremes.
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He did not mean to depress us, rather to free us from expectations which inspire bitterness. It is consoling, when love has let us down, to hear that happiness was never part of the plan.
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Out of the millions of people we live among, most of whom we habitually ignore and are ignored by in turn, there are always a few that hold hostage our capacity for happiness, whom we could recognize by their smell alone and whom we would rather die than be without.
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Though it may feel otherwise, enjoying life is no more dangerous than apprehending it with continuous anxiety and gloom.
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The only people we can think of as normal are those we don’t yet know very well.
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Unhappiness can stem from having only one perspective to play with.
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Never too late to learn some embarrassingly basic, stupidly obvious things about oneself.
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It is by finding out what something is not that one comes closest to understanding what it is.
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Every realistic picture represents a choice as to which features of reality should be given prominence; no painting ever captures the whole.
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Anyone who isn’t embarrassed of who they were last year probably isn’t learning enough.
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It wasn’t only fanatics and drunkards who began conversations with strangers in public.
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Yet often, they know but just don’t care. So the task of serious journalism isn’t just to lay out truths. It is to make vital truths compelling to a big audience.
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