Everyone returns us to a different sense of ourselves, for we become a little of who they think we are.
ALAIN DE BOTTONMemory is… similar to anticipation: an instrument of simplification and selection.
More Alain de Botton Quotes
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Taking photographs can assuage the itch for possession sparked by the beauty of a place; our anxiety over losing a precious scene can decline with every click of the shutter.
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Getting to the top has an unfortunate tendency to persuade people that the system is OK after all.
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Most good thinking has its origin in fear.
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Most of what makes a book ‘good’ is that we are reading it at the right moment for us.
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One of the best protections against disappointment is to have a lot going on.
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In a secularising world, art has replaced religion as a touchstone of our reverence and devotion.
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After 40 (old age for most of man’s history), one should strive to be more or less packed and ready to go were the end call to come.
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The problem is if you really believe in a society where those who merit to get to the top, get to the top, you’ll also, by implication … believe in a society where those who deserve to get to the bottom also get to the bottom and stay there.
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One of the unexpectedly important things that art can do for us is to teach us how to suffer more successfully.
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The attentions of others matter to us because we are afflicted by a congenital uncertainty as to our own value, as a result of which affliction we tend to allow others’ appraisals to play a determining role in how we see ourselves. Our sense of identity is held captive by the judgements of those we live among.
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Never too late to learn some embarrassingly basic, stupidly obvious things about oneself.
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The longing for destiny is nowhere stronger than in our romantic life.
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It’s hard loving those who don’t much like themselves: “If you’re so great, why would you think I’m so great.
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Curiosity takes ignorance seriously – and is confident enough to admit when it’s in the dark. It is aware of not knowing. And then it sets out to do something about it.
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The arrogance that says analysing the relationship between reasons and causes is more important than writing a philosophy of shyness or sadness or friendship drives me nuts. I can’t accept that.
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