Memory is… similar to anticipation: an instrument of simplification and selection.
ALAIN DE BOTTONCynics are – beneath it all – only idealists with awkwardly high standards.
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The very act of drawing an object, however badly, swiftly takes the drawer from a woolly sense of what the object looks like to a precise awareness of its component parts and particularities.
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These inventors were elevating the formulation of entrepreneurial ideas to the status of a visionary activity. Though forced to justify their efforts in the pragmatic language of venture capital, they were at heart utopian thinkers intent on transforming the world.
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Because the rhythm of conversation makes no allowance for dead periods, because the presence of others calls for continuous responses, we are left to regret the inanity of what we say, and the missed opportunity of what we do not.
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Don’t despair: despair suggests you are in total control and know what is coming. You don’t – surrender to events with hope.
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In the oasis complex, the thirsty man images he sees water, palm trees, and shade not because he has evidence for the belief, but because he has a need for it. Desperate needs bring about a hallucination of their solution: thirst hallucinates water.
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The dream of the news is that it makes us care about other people and situations. But we cannot identify with people to whom we haven’t been introduced. Humans will only respond to art, to people who are skilled in making you care.
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True love is a lack of desire to check one’s smartphone in another’s presence.
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I think people want to get married to end their emotional uncertainty. In a way, they want to end powerful feelings, or certainly the negative ones.
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Writing isn’t a career choice. It’s self-medication that over time precipitates the madness it was meant to ward off.
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As we write, so we build: to keep a record of what matters to us.
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It’s hard loving those who don’t much like themselves: “If you’re so great, why would you think I’m so great.
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The mind may be reluctant to think properly when thinking is all it is supposed to do; the task can be as paralysing as having to tell a joke or mimic an accent on demand.
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Bad art might be defined as a series of bad choices about what to show and what to leave out.
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A notorious inability to express emotions makes human beings the only animals capable of suicide.
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Dreams reveal we never quite get ‘over’ anything: it’s all still in there somewhere.
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