How generous was it to offer gifts to people one knew would never accept them?
ALAIN DE BOTTONIn a secularising world, art has replaced religion as a touchstone of our reverence and devotion.
More Alain de Botton Quotes
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What am I supposed to do here? What am I supposed to think?
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Writing isn’t a career choice. It’s self-medication that over time precipitates the madness it was meant to ward off.
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It’s as though either you accept [religious] doctrine and then you can have all the nice stuff, or you reject the doctrine and you’re living in some kind of spiritual wasteland under the guidance of CNN and Walmart.
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Maturity: the confidence to have no opinions on many things.
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Most victories are, in the best way, acts of revenge.
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A ‘good job’ can be both practically attractive while still not good enough to devote your entire life to.
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Rage is caused by a conviction, almost comic in its optimistic origins (however tragic in its effects), that a given frustration has not been written into the contract of life.
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Those who divorce aren’t necessarily the most unhappy, just those neatly able to believe their misery is caused by one other person.
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The fear of saying something stupid (which stupid people never have) has censored far more good ideas than bad ones.
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At the heart of every frustration lies a basic structure: the collision of a wish with an unyielding reality.
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We are like an exquisite high-speed aircraft which for lack of a tiny part is left stranded beside the runway, rendered slower than a tractor or bicycle.
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The dream of the news is that it makes us care about other people and situations. But we cannot identify with people to whom we haven’t been introduced. Humans will only respond to art, to people who are skilled in making you care.
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Not everyone is worth listening to.
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We read the weird tales in newspapers to crowd out the even weirder stuff inside us.
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A successful work will draw out the features capable of exciting a sense of beauty and interest in the spectator.
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