There are selections so acute that they come to define a place, with the result that we can no longer travel through that landscape without being reminded of what a great artist noticed there.
ALAIN DE BOTTONIn a secularising world, art has replaced religion as a touchstone of our reverence and devotion.
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What kills us isn’t one big thing, but thousands of tiny obligations we can’t turn down for fear of disappointing others.
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It was no longer her absence that wounded me, but my growing indifference to it. Forgetting, however calming, was also a reminder of infidelity to what I had at one time held so dear.
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The longing for destiny is nowhere stronger than in our romantic life.
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The blunt large questions become connected to smaller, apparently esoteric ones.
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The greatest works of art speak to us without knowing us.
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Maturity: the confidence to have no opinions on many things.
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The arrogance that says analysing the relationship between reasons and causes is more important than writing a philosophy of shyness or sadness or friendship drives me nuts. I can’t accept that.
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To be shown love is to feel ourselves the object of concern: our presence is noted, our name is registered, our views are listened to, our failings are treated with indulgence and our needs are ministered to. And under such care, we flourish.
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Mental health: having enough safe places in your mind for your thoughts to settle.
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The fear of saying something stupid (which stupid people never have) has censored far more good ideas than bad ones.
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Only by declaring a book completely finished can one start to see how much remains to be done on it.
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After 40 (old age for most of man’s history), one should strive to be more or less packed and ready to go were the end call to come.
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Forgiveness requires a sense that bad behaviour is a sign of suffering rather than malice.
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Bad art might be defined as a series of bad choices about what to show and what to leave out.
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Wealth is not an absolute. It is relative to desire. Every time we yearn for something we cannot afford, we grow poorer, whatever our resources. And every time we feel satisfied with what we have, we can be counted as rich, however little we may actually possess.
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