I never want to take away something when I don’t have anything better to offer him in a way.
IRVIN D. YALOMDoes a being who requires meaning find meaning in a universe that has no meaning?
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I must stop him from being one of those who call themselves good because they have no claws.
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Reality always creeps in–the reality of our helplessness and our mortality; the reality that, despite our reach for the stars, a creaturely fate awaits us.
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Some have expressed the very opposite feeling–the fear that they would not be interesting enough to write about.
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If you want to choose the pleasure of growth, prepare yourself for some pain.
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He had learned long ago that, in general, the easier it was for anxious patients to reach him, the less likely they were to call. (107)
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One doesn’t do existential therapy as a freestanding separate theory; rather it informs your approach to such issues as death, which many therapists tend to shy away from.
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What? ‘Borderline patients play games’? That what you said? Ernest, you’ll never be a real therapist if you think like that. That’s exactly what I meant earlier when I talked about the dangers of diagnosis.
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I think my quarry is illusion. I war against magic. I believe that, though illusion often cheers and comforts, it ultimately and invariably weakens and constricts the spirit.
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Though the physicality of death destroys us, the idea of death may save us.
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Never take away anything if you have nothing better to offer
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The pain is there; when you close one door on it, it knocks to come in somewhere else.
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Perhaps the single most important therapeutic credo that I have is that the unexamined life is not worth living.
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As we reach the crest of life and look at the path before us, we apprehend that the path no longer ascends but slopes downward toward decline and diminishment. From that point on, concerns about death are never far from mind.
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You know, I think everybody I’ve seen has come from some other therapy, and almost invariably it’s very much the same thing: the therapist is too disinterested, a little too aloof, a little too inactive. They’re not really interested in the person, he doesn’t relate to the person.
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Life as a therapist is a life of service in which we daily transcend our personal wishes and turn our gaze toward the needs and growth of the other.
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