The creative members of an orthodoxy, any orthodoxy, ultimately outgrow their disciplines.
IRVIN D. YALOMI thought a lot about how someone very old is the last living individual to have known some person or cluster of people.
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Perhaps the single most important therapeutic credo that I have is that the unexamined life is not worth living.
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A free man who lives among the ignorant strives as far as he can to avoid their favors. A free man acts honestly, not deceptively.
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One thing I feel clear about is that it’s important not to let your life live you. Otherwise, you end up at forty feeling you haven’t really lived. What have I learned? Perhaps to live now, so that at fifty I won’t look back upon my forties with regret.
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I think my quarry is illusion. I war against magic. I believe that, though illusion often cheers and comforts, it ultimately and invariably weakens and constricts the spirit.
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One reason patients are reluctant to work in a therapy group is they fear that things will go too far, that the powerful therapist or the collective group might coerce them to lose control–to say or think or feel things that will be catastrophic.
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Some piece of ourselves, not necessarily our consciousness, but some piece of ourselves gets passed on and on and on.
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Reality always creeps in–the reality of our helplessness and our mortality; the reality that, despite our reach for the stars, a creaturely fate awaits us.
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The act of revealing oneself fully to another and still being accepted may be the major vehicle of therapeutic help.
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Many people are in despair because their dreams didn’t come true, and they despair even more that they did not make them come true.
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Live right, he reminded himself, and have faith that good things will flow from you even if you never learn of them.
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This is what makes us human. But it comes with a costly price: the wound of mortality. Our existence is forever shadowed by the knowledge that we will grow, blossom, and, inevitably, diminish and die.
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If you want to choose the pleasure of growth, prepare yourself for some pain.
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It’s not easy to live every moment wholly aware of death. It’s like trying to stare the sun in the face: you can stand only so much of it. Because we cannot live frozen in fear, we generate methods to soften death’s terror.
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To the best of my knowledge, every acute inpatient ward offers some inpatient group therapy experience.
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I never want to take away something when I don’t have anything better to offer him in a way.
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