… sooner or later she had to give up the hope for a better past.
IRVIN D. YALOMTo love means to be actively concerned for the life and the growth of another.
More Irvin D. Yalom Quotes
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If one is to learn to live with the dead, one must first learn to live with the living!
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A curious thought experiment. . . Nietzsche’s message to us was to live life in such a way that we would be willing to repeat the same life eternally
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Every person must choose how much truth he can stand.
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Live your life to the fullest; and then, and only then, die. Don’t leave any unlived life behind.
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Rather, love is a way of being, a “giving to,” not a ‘falling for”; a mode of relating at large, not an act limited to a single person.
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Therapists need to have a long experience in personal therapy to see what it’s like to be on the other side of the couch and see what they find helpful or not helpful. And if possible, get into therapy at different stages of their life with different kinds of therapists just to sample a bit.
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If I had to pick out a therapist in a movie that I’d like to go see as a personal therapist, it would be Robin Williams in Goodwill Hunting.
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The act of revealing oneself fully to another and still being accepted may be the major vehicle of therapeutic help.
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To the extent that one is responsible for one’s life, one is alone.
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The creative members of an orthodoxy, any orthodoxy, ultimately outgrow their disciplines.
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Mature love is loving, not being loved.
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Just as you were about to step on it, I asked you “Do you want to cross the footbridge to me?” – Immediately you did not want to anymore; and when I asked you again you remained silent.
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If I’m among men who don’t agree at all with my nature, I will hardly be able to accommodate myself to them without greatly changing myself.
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The more you fail to experience your life fully, the more you will fear death.
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Despite the staunchest, most venerable defenses, we can never completely subdue death anxiety: it is always there, lurking in some hidden ravine of the mind.
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