We envy only those whom we feel ourselves to be like; we envy only members of our reference group. There are few successes more unendurable than those of our close friends.
ALAIN DE BOTTONArt holds out the promise of inner wholeness.
More Alain de Botton Quotes
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The good parent: someone who doesn’t mind, for a time, being hated by their children.
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Bad art might be defined as a series of bad choices about what to show and what to leave out.
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Most of what makes a book ‘good’ is that we are reading it at the right moment for us.
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One of the unexpectedly important things that art can do for us is to teach us how to suffer more successfully.
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Serious journalists often imagine society is adrift because people don’t know certain things.
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Philosophy had supplied Socrates with convictions in which he had been able to have rational, as opposed to hysterical, confidence when faced with disapproval.
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A ‘good job’ can be both practically attractive while still not good enough to devote your entire life to.
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Which seems no less relevant in the secular realm than in the religious one-that we have within us a precious, childlike, vulnerable core which we should nourish and nurture on its turbulent journey through life.
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To be shown love is to feel ourselves the object of concern: our presence is noted, our name is registered, our views are listened to, our failings are treated with indulgence and our needs are ministered to. And under such care, we flourish.
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In their different ways, art and philosophy help us, in Schopenhauer’s words, to turn pain into knowledge.
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I passionately believe that’s it’s not just what you say that counts, it’s also how you say it – that the success of your argument critically depends on your manner of presenting it.
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Literature deserves its prestige for one reason above all others – because it’s a tool to help us live and die with a little bit more wisdom, goodness, and sanity.
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Artistic accounts involve severe abbreviations of what reality will force upon us.
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Newspapers are being read all around. The point is not, of course, to glean new information, but rather to coax the mind out of its sleep-induced introspective temper.
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In the gap between who we wish one day to be and who we are at present, must come pain, anxiety, envy and humiliation.
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