It is in dialogue with pain that many beautiful things acquire their value. Acquaintance with grief turns out to be one of the more unusual prerequisites of architectural appreciation. We might, quite aside from all other requirements, need to be a little sad before buildings can properly touch us.
ALAIN DE BOTTONReputation matters so much only because people so seldom think for themselves.
More Alain de Botton Quotes
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There’s a whole category of people who miss out by not allowing themselves to be weird enough.
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In a secularising world, art has replaced religion as a touchstone of our reverence and devotion.
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Being content is perhaps no less easy than playing the violin well: and requires no less practice.
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Taking photographs can assuage the itch for possession sparked by the beauty of a place; our anxiety over losing a precious scene can decline with every click of the shutter.
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Getting to the top has an unfortunate tendency to persuade people that the system is OK after all.
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True love is a lack of desire to check one’s smartphone in another’s presence.
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Literature deserves its prestige for one reason above all others – because it’s a tool to help us live and die with a little bit more wisdom, goodness, and sanity.
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A good half of the art of living is resilience.
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One’s doing well if age improves even slightly one’s capacity to hold on to that vital truism: “This too shall pass.
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I went to church and couldn’t swallow it. The music was nice but I don’t belong there.
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The company of certain people may excite our generosity and sensitivity, while that of others awakens our competitiveness and envy.
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The arrogance that says analysing the relationship between reasons and causes is more important than writing a philosophy of shyness or sadness or friendship drives me nuts. I can’t accept that.
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As victims of hurt, we frequently don’t bring up what ails us, because so many wounds look absurd in the light of day.
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Curiosity might be pictured as being made up of chains of small questions extending outwards, sometimes over huge distances, from a central hub composed of a few blunt, large questions.
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A ‘good job’ can be both practically attractive while still not good enough to devote your entire life to.
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