How generous was it to offer gifts to people one knew would never accept them?
ALAIN DE BOTTONDreams reveal we never quite get ‘over’ anything: it’s all still in there somewhere.
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The blunt large questions become connected to smaller, apparently esoteric ones.
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Must being in love always mean being in pain?
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As an atheist, I think there are lots of things religions get up to which are of value to non-believers – and one of those things is trying to be a bit better than we normally manage to be.
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The only way to be happy is to realise how much depends on how you look at things
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It is perhaps sad books that best console us when we are sad.
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Do you love me enough that I may be weak with you? Everyone loves strength, but do you love me for my weakness? That is the real test.
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I passionately believe that’s it’s not just what you say that counts, it’s also how you say it – that the success of your argument critically depends on your manner of presenting it.
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The flawless object throws into perspective the mediocrity that surrounds it. We are reminded of the way we would wish things always to be and of how incomplete our lives remain.
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What should worry us is not the number of people that oppose us, but how good their reasons are for doing so.
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The pleasure we derive from journeys is perhaps dependent more on the mindset with which we travel than on the destination we travel to.
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Although I don’t believe in God, Bach’s music shows me what a love of God must feel like.
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Once I began to consider everything as being of potential interest, objects released latent layers of value.
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Most of us still caged within careers chosen for us by our not entirely worldly 18-22 year old selves.
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You have to be quite heavily invested in someone to do them the honour of telling them you’re annoyed with them.
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Kant and Hegel are interesting thinkers. But I am happy to insist that they are also terrible writers.
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