Most anger stems from feelings of weakness, sadness and fear: hard to remember when one is at the receiving end of its defiant roar.
ALAIN DE BOTTONWe are presented with an unpleasant choice between either committing to peculiar concepts about immaterial deities or letting go entirely of a host of consoling, subtle or just charming rituals for which we struggle to find equivalents in secular society.
More Alain de Botton Quotes
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People only get really interesting when they start to rattle the bars of their cages.
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How generous was it to offer gifts to people one knew would never accept them?
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One of the unexpectedly important things that art can do for us is to teach us how to suffer more successfully.
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Forgiveness requires a sense that bad behaviour is a sign of suffering rather than malice.
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Perhaps it is true that we do not really exist until there is someone there to see us existing, we cannot properly speak until there is someone who can understand what we are saying in essence, we are not wholly alive until we are loved.
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Unhappiness can stem from having only one perspective to play with.
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Once I began to consider everything as being of potential interest, objects released latent layers of value.
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The finest proof of our loyalty toward one another was our monstrous disloyalties towards everyone else.
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What am I supposed to do here? What am I supposed to think?
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It was no longer her absence that wounded me, but my growing indifference to it. Forgetting, however calming, was also a reminder of infidelity to what I had at one time held so dear.
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Because it’s bad enough not getting what you want, but it’s even worse to have an idea of what it is you want and find out at the end of the journey that it isn’t, in fact, what you wanted all along.
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A danger of travel is that we see things at the wrong time, before we have had a chance to build up the necessary receptivity and when new information is therefore as useless and fugitive as necklace beads without a connecting chain.
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The telephone becomes an instrument of torture in the demonic hands of a beloved who doesn’t call.
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Dreams reveal we never quite get ‘over’ anything: it’s all still in there somewhere.
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After 40 (old age for most of man’s history), one should strive to be more or less packed and ready to go were the end call to come.
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