True love is a lack of desire to check one’s smartphone in another’s presence.
ALAIN DE BOTTONWork is most fulfilling when you’re at the comfortable, exciting edge of not quite knowing what you are doing.
More Alain de Botton Quotes
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We are presented with an unpleasant choice between either committing to peculiar concepts about immaterial deities or letting go entirely of a host of consoling, subtle or just charming rituals for which we struggle to find equivalents in secular society.
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It’s as though either you accept [religious] doctrine and then you can have all the nice stuff, or you reject the doctrine and you’re living in some kind of spiritual wasteland under the guidance of CNN and Walmart.
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It’s hard loving those who don’t much like themselves: “If you’re so great, why would you think I’m so great.
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The mind may be reluctant to think properly when thinking is all it is supposed to do; the task can be as paralysing as having to tell a joke or mimic an accent on demand.
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One rarely falls in love without being as much attracted to what is interestingly wrong with someone as what is objectively healthy.
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One of the better guarantors of ending up in a good relationship: an advanced capacity to be alone.
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What am I supposed to do here? What am I supposed to think?
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A successful work will draw out the features capable of exciting a sense of beauty and interest in the spectator.
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You need a long hard day’s work to reveal the logic of the craving for very bad tv and alcohol.
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Must being in love always mean being in pain?
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We are not always humiliated by failing; we are humiliated only if we first invest our pride and sense of worth in a given achievement and then do not reach it.
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Work finally begins when the fear of doing nothing exceeds the fear of doing it badly.
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We study biology, physics, movements of glaciers… Where are the classes on envy, feeling wronged, despair, bitterness.
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Mental health: having enough safe places in your mind for your thoughts to settle.
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Our sadness won’t be of the searing kind but more like a blend of joy and melancholy: joy at the perfection we see before us, melancholy at an awareness of how seldom we are sufficiently blessed to encounter anything of its kind.
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