Anyone who isn’t embarrassed of who they were last year probably isn’t learning enough.
ALAIN DE BOTTONThe longing for destiny is nowhere stronger than in our romantic life.
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Because the rhythm of conversation makes no allowance for dead periods, because the presence of others calls for continuous responses, we are left to regret the inanity of what we say, and the missed opportunity of what we do not.
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The good parent: someone who doesn’t mind, for a time, being hated by their children.
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Memory is… similar to anticipation: an instrument of simplification and selection.
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The challenge of modern relationships: how to prove more interesting than the other’s smartphone.
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Social media has lots of benefits, but compared to Christianity, it tends to group people by interests. Religion puts you with people who have nothing in common except that you’re human.
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The company of certain people may excite our generosity and sensitivity, while that of others awakens our competitiveness and envy.
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Our homes do not have to offer us permanent occupancy or store our clothes to merit the name. To speak of home in relation to a building is simply to recognise its harmony with our own prized internal song. Home can be an airport or a library, a garden or a motorway diner.
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Mental health: having enough safe places in your mind for your thoughts to settle.
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True love is a lack of desire to check one’s smartphone in another’s presence.
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Dreams reveal we never quite get ‘over’ anything: it’s all still in there somewhere.
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Do you love me enough that I may be weak with you? Everyone loves strength, but do you love me for my weakness? That is the real test.
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If one felt successful, there’d be so little incentive to be successful.
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Paying tax should be framed as a glorious civic duty worthy of gratitude – not a punishment for making money.
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The mind does most of its best thinking when we aren’t there. The answers are there in the morning.
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We often lose our tempers not with those who are actually to blame; just with those who love us enough to forgive us our foul moods.
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