One of the better guarantors of ending up in a good relationship: an advanced capacity to be alone.
ALAIN DE BOTTONThe longing for destiny is nowhere stronger than in our romantic life.
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What is a snob? A snob is anybody who takes a small part of you and uses that to come to a complete vision of who you are. That is snobbery.
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Sweetness is the opposite of machismo, which is everywhere-and I really don’t get on with machismo. I’m interested in sensitivity, and weakness, and fear, and anxiety, because I think that, at the end of the day, behind our masks, that’s what we are.
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Our responses to the world are crucially moulded by the company we keep, for we temper our curiosity to fit in with the expectations of others.
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So many complaints boil down to the belly ache of the fragile, mortal, ignored ego in a vast and indifferent universe.
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The largest part of what we call ‘personality’ is determined by how we’ve opted to defend ourselves against anxiety and sadness”.
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Rage is caused by a conviction, almost comic in its optimistic origins (however tragic in its effects), that a given frustration has not been written into the contract of life.
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I went to church and couldn’t swallow it. The music was nice but I don’t belong there.
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A virtuous, ordinary life, striving for wisdom but never far from folly, is achievement enough.
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Philosophy had supplied Socrates with convictions in which he had been able to have rational, as opposed to hysterical, confidence when faced with disapproval.
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You normally have to be bashed about a bit by life to see the point of daffodils, sunsets and uneventful nice days.
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It’s as though either you accept [religious] doctrine and then you can have all the nice stuff, or you reject the doctrine and you’re living in some kind of spiritual wasteland under the guidance of CNN and Walmart.
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If one felt successful, there’d be so little incentive to be successful.
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Most victories are, in the best way, acts of revenge.
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There’s a whole category of people who miss out by not allowing themselves to be weird enough.
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You have to be quite heavily invested in someone to do them the honour of telling them you’re annoyed with them.
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