The company of certain people may excite our generosity and sensitivity, while that of others awakens our competitiveness and envy.
ALAIN DE BOTTONThe arrogance that says analysing the relationship between reasons and causes is more important than writing a philosophy of shyness or sadness or friendship drives me nuts. I can’t accept that.
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Only as we mature does affection begin to depend on achievement.
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A successful work will draw out the features capable of exciting a sense of beauty and interest in the spectator.
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After 40 (old age for most of man’s history), one should strive to be more or less packed and ready to go were the end call to come.
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A ‘good job’ can be both practically attractive while still not good enough to devote your entire life to.
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The finest proof of our loyalty toward one another was our monstrous disloyalties towards everyone else.
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To one’s enemies: “I hate myself more than you ever could.
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The longing for destiny is nowhere stronger than in our romantic life.
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Most victories are, in the best way, acts of revenge.
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Never too late to learn some embarrassingly basic, stupidly obvious things about oneself.
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It was no longer her absence that wounded me, but my growing indifference to it. Forgetting, however calming, was also a reminder of infidelity to what I had at one time held so dear.
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A virtuous, ordinary life, striving for wisdom but never far from folly, is achievement enough.
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It looks like it’s wasting time, but literature is actually the ultimate time-saver – because it gives us access to a range of emotions and events that it would take you years, decades, millennia to try to experience directly.
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Without sex, we would be dangerously invulnerable. We might believe we were not ridiculous. We wouldn’t know rejection and humiliation so intimately.
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One of the best protections against disappointment is to have a lot going on.
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Differ though we might with Christianity’s view of what precisely our souls need, it is hard to discredit the provocative underlying thesis.
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