Without sex, we would be dangerously invulnerable. We might believe we were not ridiculous. We wouldn’t know rejection and humiliation so intimately.
ALAIN DE BOTTONArt cannot single-handedly create enthusiasm… it merely contributes to enthusiasm and guides us to be more conscious of feelings that we might previously have experienced only tentatively or hurriedly.
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Happiness is impossible for longer than 15 minutes. We are the descendants of creatures who, above all else, worried.
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A successful work will draw out the features capable of exciting a sense of beauty and interest in the spectator.
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The finest proof of our loyalty toward one another was our monstrous disloyalties towards everyone else.
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It is striking how much more seriously we are likely to be taken after we have been dead a few centuries.
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Everyone wants a better life: very few of us want to be better people.
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There’s a whole category of people who miss out by not allowing themselves to be weird enough.
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The very act of drawing an object, however badly, swiftly takes the drawer from a woolly sense of what the object looks like to a precise awareness of its component parts and particularities.
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The problem is if you really believe in a society where those who merit to get to the top, get to the top, you’ll also, by implication … believe in a society where those who deserve to get to the bottom also get to the bottom and stay there.
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In the gap between who we wish one day to be and who we are at present, must come pain, anxiety, envy and humiliation.
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It looks like it’s wasting time, but literature is actually the ultimate time-saver – because it gives us access to a range of emotions and events that it would take you years, decades, millennia to try to experience directly.
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At the heart of every frustration lies a basic structure: the collision of a wish with an unyielding reality.
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People who readily accept the need for a gym will resist that their personalities might need some work too.
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Wealth is not an absolute. It is relative to desire. Every time we yearn for something we cannot afford, we grow poorer, whatever our resources. And every time we feel satisfied with what we have, we can be counted as rich, however little we may actually possess.
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The challenge of modern relationships: how to prove more interesting than the other’s smartphone.
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It wasn’t only fanatics and drunkards who began conversations with strangers in public.
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