The only way to get the best of an argument is to avoid it.
DALE CARNEGIEToday is life-the only life you are sure of. Make the most of today. Get interested in something. Shake yourself awake. Develop a hobby. Let the winds of enthusiasm sweep through you. Live today with gusto.
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Criticism is futile because it puts a person on the defensive and usually makes them strive to justify themselves. Criticism is dangerous, because it wounds a person’s precious pride, hurts their sense of importance, and arouses resentment.
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If you want to conquer fear, don’t sit home and think about it. Go out and get busy.
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People rarely succeed unless they have fun in what they are doing.
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Don’t be afraid of enemies who attack you. Be afraid of the friends who flatter you.
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When we have accepted the worst, we have nothing more to lose. And that automatically means we have everything to gain.
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Today is life-the only life you are sure of. Make the most of today. Get interested in something. Shake yourself awake. Develop a hobby. Let the winds of enthusiasm sweep through you. Live today with gusto.
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Knowledge isn’t power until it is applied.
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It isn’t what you have, or who you are, or where you are, or what you are doing that makes you happy or unhappy. It is what you think about.
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Face the thing that seems overwhelming and you will be surprised how your fear will melt away.
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Instead of worrying about what people say of you, why not spend time trying to accomplish something they will admire.
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Any fool can criticize, condemn and complain – and most fools do. But it takes character and self control to be understanding and forgiving.
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Remember that other people may be totally wrong. But they don’t think so. Don’t condemn them. Any fool can do that. Try to understand them. Only wise, tolerant, exceptional people even try to do that.
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Believe that you will succeed, and you will.
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If you do something for someone else, never remember. If someone does something for you, never forget.
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Perhaps you will forget tomorrow the kind words you say today, but the recipient may cherish them over a lifetime.
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Let’s never try to get even with our enemies, because if we do we will hurt ourselves far more than we hurt them. Let’s do as General Eisenhower does: let’s never waste a minute thinking about people we don’t like.
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People do things for “their” reasons, not ours. So find their reasons.
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If you want to be a good conversationalist, be a good listener. To be interesting, be interested.
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Remember happiness doesn’t depend upon who you are or what you have; it depends solely on what you think.
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Improving yourself is a lot more profitable than trying to improve others.
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Abilities wither under criticism; they blossom under encouragement.
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Good leaders are scarce; so I’m following myself.
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The life of many a person could probably be changed if only someone would make him feel important.
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Listen first. Give your opponents a chance to talk. Let them finish. Do not resist, defend or debate. This only raises barriers. Try to build bridges of understanding.
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90% of all management problems are caused by miscommunication.
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You can make more friends in two months by becoming interested in other people than you can in two years by trying to get other people interested in you.
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