Every stressful thought is a variation on a single theme: This shouldn’t be happening. I shouldn’t be having this experience. God is unjust. Life isn’t fair.
BYRON KATIEWhen we believe in our thoughts, when we tell ourselves a story, we suffer. ‘My husband doesn’t respect me.’ ‘I should be thinner.’ Those are stories. When there’s no story, there’s no suffering.
More Byron Katie Quotes
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You don’t get to vote on what is. Have you noticed?
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Gratitude is what we are without a story.
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It’s not easy to find your own way when you believe that you need love, approval, appreciation, or anything from your family. It’s particularly hard when you want them to see things your way.
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It’s not what happens in life that bothers us. It’s what we’re believing about it that bothers us.
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If people are living their lives for security and comfort and pleasure, then mind’s every waking moment will be plotting those things. That’s how it stays identified – as a body, as a you.
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It’s not your job to like me – it’s mine.
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The mind’s job is to validate what it thinks.
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Just keep coming home to yourself, you are the one who you’ve been waiting for.
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Peace doesn’t require two people; it requires only one. It has to be you. The problem begins and ends there.
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To understand our own thinking is to understand all thinking.
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Nothing outside you can ever give you what you’re looking for.
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When we question our thoughts, we see that the craziness was never in the world, but in us.
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The only way I can be angry at you is when I have thought, said, or done something that is unkind in my own opinion.
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The world is nothing but my perception of it. I see only through myself. I hear only through the filter of my story.
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When a thought hurts, that’s the signal that it isn’t true.
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