The second noble truth says that this resistance is the mechanism of what we call ego, that resisting life causes suffering.
PEMA CHODRONAll the wars, all the hatred, all the ignorance in the world come out of being so invested in our opinions.
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Things falling apart is a kind of testing and also a kind of healing.
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We have a choice. We can spend our whole life suffering because we can’t relax with how things really are, or we can relax and embrace the open-endedness of the human situation, which is fresh, unfixated, unbiased.
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The future is completely open and we are writing it moment to moment.
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Anything we experience, no matter how challenging, can become an open pathway to awakening.
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Usually we think that brave people have no fear. The truth is that they are intimate with fear.
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As our kindness for ourselves grows, so does our kindness for other people.
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Only to the extent that we expose ourselves over and over to annihilation can that which is indestructible in us be found.
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When we resist change, it’s called suffering. But when we can completely let go and not struggle against it, when we can embrace the groundlessness of our situation and relax into it’s dynamic quality, that’s called enlightenment.
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So war and peace start in the human heart. Whether that heart is open or whether that heart closes has global implications.
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By the way that we think and by the way that we believe in things, in that way our world is created.
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The essence of generosity is letting go. Pain is always a sign that we are holding on to something – usually ourselves.
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To be fully alive, fully human, and completely awake is to be continually thrown out of the nest. To live fully is to be always in no-man’s-land, to experience each moment as completely new and fresh. To live is to be willing to die over and over again.
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Since death is certain and the time of death is uncertain, what is the most important thing?
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Meditation isn’t really about getting rid of thoughts, it’s about changing the pattern of grasping on to things, which in our everyday experience is our thoughts.
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We work on ourselves in order to help others, but also we help others in order to work on ourselves.
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