Everybody comes into a relationship with baggage. We can either trip over each other’s stuff, or unpack it together.
SHELEANA AIYANAChasing unavailable people is self abandonment.
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Living in each moment with the awareness that nothing is permanent is an invitation to love more deeply, to speak more honesty, and to align with whispers of our soul.
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Imagine what you could be doing with all the energy you give away to people who don’t want what you want.
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Ultra-independence is a trauma response.
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Some of us are here to be the change-makers in our family system. We’re here to end generational trauma and start passing down love, instead of pain.
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Opening your heart and being vulnerable in the face of fear is the most courageous thing you can do.
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It’s not your job to save people from their feelings.
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Chasing unavailable people is self abandonment.
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Our ability to receive love is a mirror of our own self worth. Until we learn to receive love with an open heart, we’re limited to how deep our relationships can go.
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You are never, under any circumstance, responsible for the abusive actions of another.
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Healing takes time. Be gentle with yourself.
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Endings are also beginnings with a destination unknown.
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To be human is to embrace change. There are parts of you ready to die and parts of you waiting to be born. You are never broken, lost. You are ever changing. Always becoming.
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Feelings don’t have to make sense to be valid.
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The only way to confirm our worth, is to stop chasing people and start setting boundaries for who we allow in our lives.
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You are not separate from love, love is all that you are.
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Rejection is redirection.
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Sometimes it’s the people who have the most baggage that become the most attentive and committed partners.
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The hallmark of secure attachment is being able to remain connected to yourself while also being connected to others.
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Some of us are here to be the change-makers in our family system. We’re here to end generational trauma and start passing down love, instead of pain.
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If they say they don’t want a relationship right now, that’s not an invitation to sit in their waiting room.
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You are not responsible for carrying the pain, trauma, or shame of your mother and father. Release yourself from carrying what was never yours to carry.
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Life isn’t trying to break you down. It’s trying to break you open.
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Heartbreak does not have to be a meaningless experience. For many, it is a spiritual catalyst – a pathway to awakening to ones deepest desires for love, purpose and connection.
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Heartbreak does not have to be a meaningless experience. For many, it is a spiritual catalyst – a pathway to awakening to ones deepest desires for love, purpose and connection.
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We cannot save people. But we can love them. And this is the highest expression of our essence.
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Your partner is your spiritual teacher.
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