Let difficulty transform you. And it will. In my experience, we just need help in learning how not to run away.
PEMA CHODRONI can’t overestimate the importance of accepting ourselves exactly as we are right now, not as we wish we were or think we ought to be.
More Pema Chodron Quotes
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If you follow your heart, you’re going to find that it is often extremely inconvenient.
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Usually we think that brave people have no fear. The truth is that they are intimate with fear.
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All situations teach you, and often it’s the tough ones that teach you best.
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Every moment is unique, unknown, completely fresh.
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So many of us start along the spiritual path because we are suffering. But you must realize that for real healing to occur, there must first be deep compassion for yourself, especially the parts of yourself you dislike or consider ugly.
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The best spiritual instruction is when you wake up in the morning and say, ‘I wonder what’s going to happen today.’ And then carry that kind of curiosity through your life.
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So war and peace start in the human heart. Whether that heart is open or whether that heart closes has global implications.
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Only to the extent that we expose ourselves over and over to annihilation can that which is indestructible in us be found.
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It isn’t the things that are happening to us that cause us to suffer, it’s what we say to ourselves about the things that are happening. The truth you believe and cling to makes you unavailable to hear anything new.
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The second noble truth says that this resistance is the mechanism of what we call ego, that resisting life causes suffering.
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If someone comes along and shoots an arrow into your heart, it’s fruitless to stand there and yell at the person. It would be much better to turn your attention to the fact that there’s an arrow in your heart.
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Sticking with that uncertainty, getting the knack of relaxing in the midst of chaos, learning not to panic-this is the spiritual path.
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Feel the feelings and drop the story.
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Feeling irritated, restless, afraid, and hopeless is a reminder to listen more carefully.
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Obstacles are our friends: they teach us where we’re stuck.
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