Pain is not wrong. Reacting to pain as wrong initiates the trance of unworthiness. The moment we believe something is wrong, our world shrinks and we lose ourselves in the effort to combat the pain.
TARA BRACHThrough the sacred art of pausing, we develop the capacity to stop hiding, to stop running away from our experience. We begin to trust in our natural intelligence, in our naturally wise heart, in our capacity to open to whatever arises.
More Tara Brach Quotes
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Stopping the endless pursuit of getting somewhere else is the perhaps most beautiful offering we can make to our spirit.
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Perhaps the biggest tragedy of our lives is that freedom is possible, yet we can pass our years trapped in the same old patterns.
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Awakening self-compassion is often the greatest challenge people face on the spiritual path.
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Sometimes the easiest way to appreciate ourselves is by looking through the eyes of someone who loves us.
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There are some things we can’t choose, but in being present we can choose how we want to relate to them.
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Even a few moments of offering loving kindness can reconnect you with the purity of your loving heart.
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Emotions are the interaction of thoughts and of sensations in the body.
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Extend an act of kindness each day. No one has to know. It can be a smile, reassuring words, a small favor – without expecting something in return.
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Nothing is wrong – whatever is happening is just “real life.”
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Telling each other the truth and being who we are, and having space for the other person’s vulnerability in being who they are, allows us to move in a kind of dance together that’s very fluid and graceful.
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Relaxation is the doorway to both wisdom and compassion.
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We can find true refuge within our own hearts and minds-right here, right now, in the midst of our moment-to-moment lives.
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We wait for things to be different in order to feel okay with life. As long as we keep attaching our happiness to the external events of our lives, which are ever changing, we’ll always be left waiting for it.
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People don’t behave in angry ways unless they are feeling stressed and conflicted too.
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Self-judgment continues to arise – it’s a strong habit – but the fact that I made a conscious commitment to recognize it has helped me stop feeding the story of being unworthy.
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