The muscles used to make a smile actually send a biochemical message to our nervous system that it is safe to relax the flight of freeze response.
TARA BRACHWhere desire ends up causing suffering is when it fixates.
More Tara Brach Quotes
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By regarding ourselves with kindness, we begin to dissolve the identity of an isolated, deficient self. This creates the grounds for including others in an unconditionally loving heart.
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Radical Acceptance is the willingness to experience ourselves and our lives as it is.
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Whatever you encounter, may that be part of the path.
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Even a few moments of offering loving kindness can reconnect you with the purity of your loving heart.
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The spiritual path is not a solo endeavor. In fact, the very notion of a self who is trying to free her/ himself is a delusion. We are in it together and the company of spiritual friends helps us realize our interconnectedness.
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Imperfection is not our personal problem – it is a natural part of existing.
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Longing, felt fully, carries us to belonging.
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Pain is not wrong. Reacting to pain as wrong initiates the trance of unworthiness. The moment we believe something is wrong, our world shrinks and we lose ourselves in the effort to combat the pain.
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Mindfulness is a pause – the space between stimulus and response: that’s where choice lies.
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We’re so used to presenting ourselves and getting approval according to our achievements that it’s difficult to be authentic and trust that we’ll be accepted just as we are.
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The trance of unworthiness keeps the sweetness of belonging out of reach. The path to “the sweetness of belonging,” is acceptance – acceptance of ourselves and acceptance of others without judgment.
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Awakening self-compassion is often the greatest challenge people face on the spiritual path.
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People don’t behave in angry ways unless they are feeling stressed and conflicted too.
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As we free ourselves from the suffering of ‘something is wrong with me, ‘we trust and express the fullness of who we are.’
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Sometimes the easiest way to appreciate ourselves is by looking through the eyes of someone who loves us.
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