When we don’t tell those we love about what’s really going on or listen carefully to what they have to say, we tend to fill in the blanks with stories.
SHARON SALZBERGEven as we recognize our resentment, bitterness, or jealousy, we can also honor our own wish to be happy, to feel free.
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Forgiveness that is insincere, forced or premature can be more psychologically damaging than authentic bitterness & rage.
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We can understand the inherent radiance & purity of our minds by understanding metta. Like the mind, metta is not distorted by what it encounters.
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We long for permanence but everything in the known universe is transient. That’s a fact but one we fight.
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Seeking is endless. It never comes to a state of rest; it never ceases.
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By engaging in a delusive quest for happiness, we bring only suffering upon ourselves. In our frantic search for something to quench our thirst, we overlook the water all around us and drive ourselves into exile from our own lives.
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Effort is the unconstrained willingness to persevere through difficulty.
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As we practice meditation, we get used to stillness and eventually are able to make.
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We have the power to improve our work lives immeasurably through awareness, compassion, patience & ingenuity.
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Meditation is the ultimate mobile device; you can use it anywhere, anytime, unobtrusively.
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Once we are honest about our feelings, we can invite ourselves to consider alternative modes of viewing our pain and can see that releasing our grip on anger and resentment can actually be an act of self-compassion.
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We often get caught up in our own reactions and forget the vulnerability of the person in front of us.
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It is never too late to turn on the light. Your ability to break an unhealthy habit or turn off an old tape doesn’t depend on how long it has been running; a shift in perspective doesn’t depend on how long you’ve held on to the old view.
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Even as we recognize our resentment, bitterness, or jealousy, we can also honor our own wish to be happy, to feel free.
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The difference between misery and happiness depends on what we do with our attention.
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It is awareness of both our shared pain and our longing for happiness that links us to other people and helps us to turn toward them with compassion.
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